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Can somebody help me?

Theres a girl[I will call her W] in my class. (I am in 6th grade, going into 7th) My friends[Q and R] talk negitive stuff about her and I became her friend after them. Now, [W] will NOT leave me alone. [W] is touching [not touching touching, touching] me, poking me, and blowing her stinky breath in my face asking me does it smell nice.

[Q and R] Say that she lies, don't be her friend and shes annoying. I'm starting to think that. But since November, [W] has been talking s*ht about [Q and R]. So now, I don't know what to do.


Should I be 老友记 with [W, Q and R]?
Should I be 老友记 with only [W]?
或者
Only 老友记 with [Q and R]?


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BTW, Theyre all girls.
zanesaaomgfan posted 一年多以前
 zanesaaomgfan posted 一年多以前
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BabyBlud said:
I'm not going to tell 你 who 你 should be 老友记 with as that's a decision 你 should make for yourself.
But if i was in your position i would look carefully at each friend and think back to which one(s) backed 你 up and kept your head high whenever 你 felt down. Think about the one 你 trust the most, not just in keeping secrets, but also to help 你 in your time of need.
What 你 have to think about is this - if 你 befriend one, and the other two fall out with you, then they weren't true friends.
True 老友记 wouldn't mind who 你 hung out with as long as 你 still made time for them. And if they were really good 老友记 they would try to get to know this girl themselves.
However bitchiness and cat-calling among 老友记 is never good as it can lead to big trouble and even the loss of a friendship forever. If all 3 of your 老友记 are fighting and you're in the middle of it, i suggest 你 invite them all over for a movie night 或者 something, get them all in the same room, sit them down and talk to them. Tell them about how they're fights are making 你 feel and explaining to them how 你 want each and every one of them to carry on being your friend, even if they don't want to be 老友记 with each other. if they can't accept that and tell 你 to choose between them both, then they aren't true 老友记 in my opinion.
你 must tell this W friend of your's that poking is extremely irritating and she has to stop it as 你 don't want to fall out with her. Also if she suffers from smelly breath just tell her in private that she may have halitosis and to see her dentist about getting that fixed. brushing her teeth after every meal, flossing and cleaning her tongue would help too. However if she's doing it just to annoy 你 你 have to put your foot down and tell her 你 don't appreciate it. If she carried on poking and sticking her breath in front of your face the time is to take it seriously, sit her down, explain you're at the end of your tether and 你 won't stand up to it anymore. Tell her to quit and if she doesn't then unfortunately she wouldn't be a good friend either as 老友记 respect each others 太空 and needs.
Hope that helps hun X
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posted 一年多以前 
life_is_a_dream said:
well thats kind of typical in middle school, if i were 你 i would pick who 你 feel the most comfortable with, i mean do 你 feel like 你 could tell W all your darkest secrets without her telling others 或者 without talking shit about 你 behind your back?
thats how i would pick, hope this helps!!
:)
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posted 一年多以前 
adultswimperson said:
This usually happens in middle school when people get bullied.
if i were u i'd test people out to see how nice they are and 由 the end of the week see how the results turn out.
try it out and see if it works.
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posted 一年多以前 
lovelyass said:
ive got my own problems^(:
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posted 一年多以前 
megan_12345609 said:
ditch [W] stay with [Q & R]
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posted 一年多以前 
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springely posted 一年多以前
TDItwin said:
whydont 你 try get everyone to be 老友记 i mean if W is saying mean stuff about Q and R maby its cuz she dosent know them verry well also if she keeps talking like that why dont 你 stick up for them i mean 你 dont have 2 be a puppet
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posted 一年多以前 
yoshifan1976 said:
Just be 老友记 with who you're most comfortable with. 你 know the ones who like the same hobbies as 你 do. 你 just choose your own 老友记 and hopefully those friendships will be everlasting. XD
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posted 一年多以前 
orangeturnip said:
can somebody help you?....not me
im 迷失
maybe:
你 should be 老友记 with Q cos he got all da gadgets!!!
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posted 一年多以前 
Confuzzle said:
Okies...I had this situation too, breathe in...breathe out.


Start 由 saying to W "Whoa...back it up, dude, personal space." Then, when either badmouths the other, say
"Come on, she's my friend. Really, she's [adjective]."

你 should be in peace then...relax.
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posted 一年多以前 
GaGaBoi said:
Dress Slutty and you'll be fine.
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posted 一年多以前 
Monrose said:
"W" sounds like a bitch, drop her.
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