This 文章 was written 由 潮流粉丝俱乐部 guest contributor Stacee R.
The hardest part about dating is finding out if the guy you’re interested in actually likes you. Once it’s established, moving 前锋, 期待 is easy, but getting there is the tricky part. Here are six ways to know if the guy you’re crushing on is crushing back! 1. How does he act when he’s around you?
Both men and women act in strange and unusual ways when they’re around someone they like. Some people get shy while others take over and need all the attention. Most of these gestures are simple tactics to get the other’s attention. So how does your guy act? Does he say hi when he sees 你 或者 plays it cool and waits for you? Some guys don’t waste anytime and go after what they want—no games, no nerves, in it to win it 或者 移动 along. However, the reality of all guys 表演 this way is unfortunately slim and nun. If the guy 你 like sees you, but doesn’t say hello it could be one of two things; maybe he’s nervous and he forgot how to speak 或者 he’s playing hard to get. Either way, him not immediately acknowledging 你 could be a good thing, that is unless he never does, then it’s up to 你 if 你 want to pursue him 或者 let it go. 2. How does he talk to you?
When a guy is interested in a girl, he’s fully interested. Even the jerkiest of jerks change their tone when conversing with the object of their affection, so pay attention to how he speaks to you. Where do his eyes go? Is he looking into yours, hanging on every word 你 say 或者 is he looking around and on his phone? If he hasn’t let go of that gaze, he’s definitely into you. However, if he’s not paying attention to you, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s not into you, he could be playing hard to get, but if he has better things to do than talk to 你 than 你 don’t need him!
3. How does he act in a group setting?
Hey may be great, but can he kiss?
When you’re with a group of 老友记 and your crush is there how does he act towards you? The obvious signs that he likes 你 amongst other people are he’s nice to you, whispers to 你 so the group doesn’t hear and makes sure to stand 由 you. If only it was that easy! Some guys like to 显示 off and play “school yard” games, he may tease 你 或者 pick on you, even a light push is a good sign, and if he keeps bringing 你 up 或者 saying your name 你 know you’re on his mind. 4. How does he act towards other girls?
Don’t confuse a guy liking 你 and a flirt. Some guys are big flirts and treat every girl as if they’re the only girl in the world…beware of these con artists! Guys that give girls nicknames like “sweetie,” “baby” and “cutie” are only calling 你 that because it’s easier than trying to keep every girls name straight. Obviously, if you’re in a relationship and your beau gives 你 a nickname that’s different, but not right off the bat. When your guy talks to other girls is he flirty? Does he act the same way with them as he does with you? When he’s talking to them and you’re around does he ever look your way? These are all signs to look for when trying to decide if he’s into 你 或者 not.
5. What’s his body language like?
Romantic picnics with tents and motorcycles? Why not!
When you’re sitting with your guy what does his body tell you? Are his legs crossed towards 你 或者 facing you? Does he find any reason to touch you? Even the slightest gesture can give the green light that he’s into you, however tread lightly, just cause a guy wiped a bug off 你 doesn’t mean he likes 你 更多 than a friend, but if he touches 你 repeatedly for no real reason, 你 can assume he may like you. 6. How often do 你 communicate with him?
We are in the technological age and everybody is online 或者 texting, how often does your beau text you? Believe it 或者 not, a few out there haven’t jumped on the texting bandwagon and like to live an old school lifestyle, however the other 99% are texting! If your guy texts, messages, and tries to connect 你 at least once 或者 twice a day, he likes you. Other guys’ 爱情 playing hard to get and use texting 或者 calling as a way to get girls right where they want them. Be strong ladies, only text him a certain amount of times if 你 must, otherwise 你 may be entering needy stalker waters!
Life was so much easier before texting and smartphones!