Why does 爱情 hurt? Can 你 be hurt and still love?

Real 爱情 doesn’t hurt, kiddo. Real 爱情 is what makes all the bad crap in your life seem that much 更多 bearable. 爱情 is intoxicating, irrational, overwhelming, illogical... It sets your senses on 火, 消防 and makes 你 do things 你 would’ve never done was it not for that other person. 爱情 blinds 你 and makes 你 see the whole world in a new clear, beautiful way at the same time.

It’s the absence of 爱情 that hurts; it’s the falling out of 爱情 或者 not having 爱情 或者 not having reciprocal 爱情 that hurts.


Hopefully this isn’t for you, but I have to add this because some people might need to hear it over and over again:

"I've 说 before, 爱情 doesn't hurt, and if a man hits 你 once, he will hit 你 again." ~ Oprah Winfrey

There are lots of reasons why 爱情 hurts. Maybe 你 just broke up with someone and 你 still 爱情 them, 或者 maybe 你 haven't seen the one 你 爱情 in so long that your just pining for them. (Me at the moment) But yes 你 can be hurt and still be in love. It's possible. Very possible. 爱情 will hurt at some points, but it's wourth it! It may not seem like it while your hurting, but once 你 find that special someone you'll always know that it was wourth it! ;)

all the dang time.

I know 爱情 hurts and I know what it feels like.
I was in 爱情 with this guy whom I did 爱情 but he let lust ruin it and in a way he did abuse me slighty. I've felt worthless ever since and every time I look at him 或者 someone mentions him it opens up old wounds and I have to hold it together 或者 else i'd break down to the floor holding myself for support. Even though I'm with someone whom I want to spend the rest of my days with I still feel what I felt before and I dont think anything will ever change that. SO when 你 爱情 expect pain.

so many guys lyk me...........but the guy i lyk,doesnt even bother to look at me 或者 even say hi.....if i smile at him, he makes a face.
it was when he kissed another girl, dat i found out he was already in luv with sum1 else ;(
i almost cry every night beacause of this.
did i HAVE to see them kiss? ;(

爱情 hurts cause 你 can 爱情 someone and they will ignor u.

i dont know why but 爱情 hurts and 你 still can 爱情 and hurt, it may not be always true that 爱情 hurts but i'm speaking on experience 爱情 can hurt if it gets the chance.

爱情 isnt 爱情 without hurt.

爱情 is like magic because 你 are able to experience every emotion; happiness, frustration, pleasure and hurt. with out feeling pain, how do 你 no there is pain to feel. pain lets us know we have a reason for sorrow, a reason for life and , A REASON FOR LOVE

a person can break your 心 but 你 can still 爱情 them and its almost imposible to fogive and forget especialy for girls

你 can be hurt and still love
i asked this guy out but never got and answer
this girl whos supposed 2 be 1 on of my best 老友记 got dunped and 2 weeks later asked the guy i just asked out
and he 说 yes
:'(

If I like someone and they hurt me i don't forgive them because if they break my 心 it still hurts but only if i really liked them...

Loving people hurts because 你 爱情 them

爱情 hurts cuz u use ur 心 to feel and theres noway to bounce back from a broken heart

爱情 hurts because when it doesnt hurt, its the best feeling in the world...so there has to be something to even out all that good :)

ugh!sometimes i hate love!really hurts.
once i started to cry cause my boyfreind
kissed another girl...:(

i know 爱情 dose hurt and yes u can be still in love

Sometimes 爱情 can hurt because 你 feel bad
things and 你 爱情 the person so much, 你 don't
understand how to deal 或者 control the things you
feel for them.
Of course 你 can still 爱情 even when you're
hurt. If 你 really 爱情 the person, 你 can live
and get through really tough times 你 experience
and still love.

爱情 hurts. Period. But 爱情 can happen anyway, that's what makes it wonderful.

Yes 你 can still 爱情 and hurt at the same time. But get the hurt out of you, because it is not good 4 u. 由 your problem, something serious is keeping u from living. But their's always hope and u will 爱情 again.

There're so many reasons why 爱情 hurts. First of all: When 你 爱情 someone and he/she dosen't 爱情 你 back.
The 秒 most painful thing in 爱情 when your lover goes with an other boy/girl and lies about it.
The third is the break-up. When 你 don't think anyone but him/her and cries very much.

I was in 爱情 but I didn't feel any of these options.

爱情 hurts when 你 爱情 someone but they can not 或者 will not 爱情 你 back.

anyone can do anything but it is hard to 爱情 again after 你 have been hurt

爱情 is a mixture of alot of things and one of them is hurt and pain if u want to expirence 爱情 then u have to go trough the pain 爱情 gives u............ yes u can be in pain and still 爱情 that is only called true 爱情 if u forget ur 爱情 becoz its too painfull then u cant call it love...

爱情 does hurt and u feel that pain in ur 心 until u find someone new

Of course 你 can hurt and be hurt and still Love. (example: My family: time & time again have hurt me.)The resilience of 爱情 to still be able to Forgive (even if maybe they do not deserve at all) and to 爱情 no matter what is the miracle of LOVE. :)

and Thank God!

no idea..never dated before!!!

Hard times.. Hard struggles.. Broken trust.. Broken hopes..
Is what happens in relationship.
And sometimes, it's just too much to continue..
Breaking down.. Giving in.. Giving up..
But we still want them in our life, so we tried to not cut, to not leave.. To conquering "Misunderstanding" and To 爱情 them still..
Because 你 both know... 你 never gonna be strong without each other!
Tommorow wouldn't be worth to wait!
and 你 neither living nor dead without them!
你 will give them power to destroy you, but..
你 trust them once again... not to 显示 u How painful 爱情 can be!

Yeah one can be hurt and 爱情 again coz 迷失 爱情 must be forgotten no matter how hard it may appear

Y dose living zones one hurts so bad

true 爱情 doesn't hurt, it breaks down barriers, and it can change many things, if we are willing to listen to your heart. im glad u r able to forgive, as u try to mend ur 心 , but it obviously wasn't ment to b , n u r very wise to have made the positive step, the mature step * so try not to think too much, have some time for u, go out with friends, buy urself something, give ur self a new hairdo. true 爱情 is being strong enough to b able to let it , 或者 them go, it may hurt like no tomo, but if it was true 爱情 it will b back, but u will b wiser. a holiday may b on the cards. for 爱情 takes a lot of work, but from two, that are equal, 爱情 is a language all of its own, true 爱情 no words r req, it clicks, so stand proud, your 心 does know love. with luck u will find ur soul mate, but let the past go.u r strong enough to let it go, so blooming well done, proud of 你 * peace be with you)