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Ok, I seriously need help.

Ok, I am a 14 年 old GIRL that is currently NOT single--with a GUY(Michael)-
but wait!

Umm, I have a best friend(Carolyn), and she has had about 3 boyfriends while Michael is my first,
right now Carolyn is single but yesterday we went to this abandoned house 下一个 to our school with some of her new 篮球 friends, but when they had to go 首页 she 说 she wasn't going with them that she would stick around with me, but when I needed to go she held be down and 说 that she wants to be alone with me for a sec-so I 说 fine.
She then took my hand and 说 a bunch of cheesy best friend stuff about how we've been best homies sinse ever and all that then she held my cheaks and kIsSeD me!
And after she stopped we were quiet for like 5 分钟 then my mom called me, so I left.
And now I'm confused...cause I kinda liked it, and I never felt so...
passionate...?
Even with my boyfriend, so what do I do?
Do I talk to her 或者 something? Even if I do, I wouldn't know what to say!
 Freaxxx posted 一年多以前
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KatiiCullen94 said:
Okay, I think i can give 你 some advice.

你 pair are 14. And 你 both had/have BF, meaning your friend may be Bisexual. But at the same is at the age of 14, everything is soo new, 你 want to experience everything now and then.
If your acatually worried that she may have a crush 或者 feelings for you, don't stress, because no matter what age a woman is, they will at least once feel something for a another woman. But being young means nothing's permant.
Follow your heart. What does your sex-drive tell you. When 你 get horny who do 你 think of without any control on the thought. Do 你 think of her kiss,not because it was so shocking but because 你 want to do it again and again.

Also, experimenting with 老友记 HAPPENS ALL THE TIME. I know me and my best friend fuck every sleepover, single 或者 not . (we've cheated with each other :P)But still no strings attached.

Close your eyes, and imagine yourself holding her hand, standing behind her and holding her waist, brushing her hair, looking at her lips, embracing in the photos. Can 你 picture yourself being with her, 或者 does it upset 或者 gross 你 out.
Since the kiss, have 你 been thinking about what it be like if another girl kissed you?

But being at the early stages of teen means that 你 beleive and want to experiment and be unique, but time will reveal wheither where your 心 lies. Don't stress yourself out, and dont make your friendship awkward.

But if 你 want to talk to her, just talk to her, she's still your friend right, talk to her normally. She kissed you, so It's not like its going to be a shock to her.

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posted 一年多以前 
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Actually, I have been thinking about that, the idea just makes me feel good...and I do think about it again and again, when I think about being with her I kind of like it. I just wish I could be like her and not be afraid of being teased and stuff, people call her 'Hot Les' 或者 'Sexy Lesbo' all the time...mainly guys of course -.-' but I'm kind of worried about that, and that only.
Freaxxx posted 一年多以前
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Im scared of that too. Like i 爱情 my girlfrend Anna, but we 爱情 each , not those people. If 你 want to be with her , be with her and when those bohy say something, its because they are just jealo9us they 你 have her and they dont, they are just insurre, you've won no matter what name they call you, cause really 你 are in a happy relationship and they are not.
KatiiCullen94 posted 一年多以前
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Thats great! I hope 你 guys last long! :)
Freaxxx posted 一年多以前
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