2.Break the 吻乐队（Kiss） barrier (optional). If you're feeling brave, test the waters with a small 吻乐队（Kiss） on the hand 或者 the cheek. If the other person seems interested, it's probably 安全 to proceed with a 吻乐队（Kiss） on the mouth.
If you're 接吻 a girl: Take her hand and slowly lift it to your mouth. Gently press your lips into the back of your hand for 2 或者 3 秒 before breaking away.
If you're 接吻 a guy: Lean in and plant a 2- 或者
3.-second 吻乐队（Kiss） on his cheek. Keep your lips soft, and avoid puckering like 你 would if 你 were 接吻 a family member. If 你 want your intentions to be extra clear, aim for the part of his cheek just to the side of his lips.
3 Set the mood with a romantic compliment. Go big and pay the other person the sincerest compliment 你 can think of. If 你 get it right, the other person might take the lead and lean in to 吻乐队（Kiss） you.
Say it in an intimate way. Lower the volume and tone of your voice slightly, and lock eyes. Not only does this communicate that 你 have deep feelings for this person, it entices him 或者 her to come closer to hear you.
Focus on an alluring quality. Even if 你 truly think that your 日期 is an amazing 篮球 player, now might not be the best time to bring it up. Instead, base your compliment on how 你 see your 日期 as a romantic partner. Here are some possibilities 你 can try:
"You are SO beautiful."
"Your eyes drive me crazy."
"I 爱情 to see 你 smile."
"I can't even believe I'm lucky enough to be with 你 right now."
4.If all else fails, go for broke and state your intentions. If your 日期 hasn't picked up on any of your hints and you're dying to lock lips, 你 might as well be straightforward and just ask if 你 can 吻乐队（Kiss） him 或者 her. Don't worry, though — 你 can be direct while still being romantic and compelling. Try these phrases if you're at a loss for words:
"I'd 爱情 nothing 更多 than to 吻乐队（Kiss） 你 right now."
"I'm sorry if this is too forward, but I'd really like to 吻乐队（Kiss） you."
"I want to 吻乐队（Kiss） 你 so much that it is just about killing me."
5.Go in for the kiss. Don't waste any time once 你 have the go-ahead — close your eyes, lean in and smooch! The 下一个 sections will discuss some 接吻 techniques, as well as how to handle 接吻 in different dating situations such as a first 吻乐队（Kiss） 或者 接吻 after a date
