Is it bad to be a femboy?

Not at all. Being femboy doesn't mean you're gay. It just means you're effeminate is all.

It's common belief that God created 你 as 你 are to be who 你 are, without fear 或者 consequence. If 你 don't feel 你 fit into socially (not religiously) determined gender roles, then that's how God wanted 你 to be, and 你 should not deny that. God doesn't want 你 to change who 你 are. He wants 你 to be proud of who 你 are. He wants 你 to stand up to people who may mock 你 for who 你 are. He wants 你 to face adversity head on and come out stronger for it.

He wants 你 to follow your own path. So long as 你 are true to yourself, and harm no one else, 你 will make Him proud.

Nothing wrong with it at all dear =)
Just be yourself~

The that makes me stop and think is well, their is a verse that Paul 说 being effeminate is not allowed, and well to be honest I 爱情 feminine guys, and now I just found out it is a sin?

:\ my mom thinks it's wrong, girls are supposed to dress like girls and boys are supposed to dress like boys! she says, im a tomboy, i have just recently "come out of the closet" im getting a little braver and have started 由 doing little things like wearing a boy's T-shirt 或者 a boy's chain, sometimes i feel like i should have been a boy, but my family is appalled, i feel like a gross freak around them! lol, everyone tells me, why don't 你 dress like a girl, why don't 你 "be cool" and dress sexy and stuff. but the truth is, i was never cool when i did! and now that i've come out of my shell, some people like me a lot! :) im louder and 更多 confident and i feel 更多 free and loose
to answer your 问题 i dunno boy! *shakes head* hey, dude it's not like you're gay, don't let anyone make 你 feel like a freak, you're 你 and...i think femboys r kinda sexy *wink*

I'm sure you'll be blessed too Zyclone- for caring to want to please God is an admirable thing, indeed.

People struggle for acceptance within themselves, from parents, from others, and often times from God. We seek understanding to validate ourselves & our actions as the human-beings we are but we cannot ever justify our own. When we are born again, we take on a new life and new mantle, whether we are mannly 或者 femme, whether we have tendancies 或者 no matter our predisposition. We are now a new creation developing into who God is making us. :)

It's great that 你 care, but with all the pressures of the world, that is TOO MUCH... give it to God who cares too. We are not cookie-cutter Christians. We each have gifts and we'll all fall short -just keep looking up (to Him). He'll help 你 with whatever 你 need!

No of course not. I don't act all girly but I tend to be softer compared to other guys.

I don't like stereotypical guy stuff, like: hunting, football, boxing and so on.

I strive to be my own person and just that. I doubt God wants me to be some stereotype, so I won't. I say just be you: that is what God would like seeing in people.

Naw! It's not at all bad! It's perfectly okay to be yourself!

it is a constant self denial. Living for Christ is living totally against your own nature, because it dwells in truth, rather than comfortability and pleasure. i'd suggest this- i was a femboy as well at one point in my life.

I don't think it is because it means 你 are still a guy but 你 like wearing female clothing and no church 说 你 go to 'hell' but if 你 are gay than that is a sin.