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Why do I get stared at so much 由 the way I dress?

Okay so I like to dress quite 日本动漫 sometimes like over the knee socks, bright colours, big massive bows and 花 in my hair, cute dresses and everyone always gives me weird looks because of the way I dress, why do they do that it hurts me? should I just start dressing 更多 boring?
 RnBStar13 posted 一年多以前
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sesshyz said:
Idk.... if I saw someone dressed like that I'd have to look also. People just don't see dress like that everyday. People might even think you're a... *GASP* weeaboo. And/or hungry for attention. (Massive head-bows? really?)

If that's your style...and 你 want to dress that way, fine....more power to ya... but 你 need to be able to handle the criticism that goes along with it. People are judgmental, and dressing like that probably doesn't make a best first impression. I'm just being honest.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thanks :)
RnBStar13 posted 一年多以前
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and yes I do wear massive head-bows, i think they're amazing
RnBStar13 posted 一年多以前
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np =)
sesshyz posted 一年多以前
faiyah226 said:
你 shouldn't worry about others cause your trying to express yourself and trying to make your own style.don't worry about what others think because its your life.
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Thanks :)
RnBStar13 posted 一年多以前
AcidBanter said:
Don't take it as a negative thing, sometimes when people are looking at 你 it's probably cuz they like what you're wearing. Well, that's usually what I think when I look at someone's outfit.

I remember one girl had a victorian style dress, but she had a modern 哥特式 edge to it, she really suited it.

Just remember it's not a bad thing to turn a few heads.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thank 你 :) it's just i don't like getting stared at but i don't want to dress any differently and i shouldn't have to
RnBStar13 posted 一年多以前
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Then don't. Don't let anybody make 你 feel bad about your style. It's yours, not theirs :)
AcidBanter posted 一年多以前
vampiressJazz said:
I think it's cool 你 dress like that :) it's unique, one of a kind. Don't care what others think there probably jealous that 你 have the confidence to dress that way.

Dressing how 你 want is fine just as long as 你 don't dress like your homeless 或者 a slut.
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Thank 你 :) well I don't have confidence, i'm far from it, i just feel comfortable with the way I dress :) it's how I express myself
RnBStar13 posted 一年多以前
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Np :) if 你 dress how comfortably then it's easier to boost your confidence (:
vampiressJazz posted 一年多以前
terhenetar said:
It depends on how they stare. If 你 dress the way 你 described, it is only to be expected that people will look at you, simply because they see something out of ordinary. It doesn't necesserily mean that they will stare in a negative and/or judgemental way. It is natural that in a group of, say, 20 people dressed in jeans and t-shirts a person dressed in an 'anime way' will stand out.
So yes, if 你 do not want to attract attention 你 should dress in a 更多 typical way. 你 are the only person who can say whether this attraction bothers 你 或者 not. If it doesn't, keep on dressing the way 你 do. :) If it does, well, there is another question: Do people just stare 或者 do 你 notice their negative attitude as well? I'm afraid that there's nothing 你 can do about those who do not accept individuality and want everyone to dress all the same, apart from ... ignoring them.
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jester616 said:
I think 你 probably have 更多 confidence than 你 think. It takes guts to stand out. Last 年 my daughter had the same problem at her old school. She's artistic and designs her own clothes, 或者 she likes to wear dresses from the '40s. Other people stared 或者 commented, usually negatively. When she tried to dress 更多 "normal", she then got flack for trying to fit in. Ultimately she decided that it's worthless to please others, so she dresses how she likes. Don't let other people get to you. You're young--enjoy it.
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