Is it so much to ask for?

I been single so far an I just want to be with some I like and know. I'm not interested in anything sexual, I just want a boyfriend. but ont that's up to my standards:
-not a jock
-nice
-kind
-obnoxious (becasue if he weren't he wouldn't seem like a guy.)
-not a jock
-not afraid to talk (and I mean just talk, like about his 日 或者 what ever, anything.)
-not a jock
-at least somewhat into what I'm into
- Oh, and DEFINITELY NOT A JOCK

(sorry I keep puting that, it's just that so far those are the guy that I've been attracting, and I'm not a very sporty person)
I mean is it to much to as for a guy at least a LITTLE bit close to that standard?
am I setting to high? am I just being selfish for wanting a guy like that?
please tell me.
(random video I found, and thought it was cute, it's a K-Pop song..I think.)