My parents compare me to my cousin all the time on the basis of grades.What do I do?

Tell your parents about how 你 feel. But don't blame them for anything, parents are allergic to that! Say something like; "I always want to be 更多 like <insert name of cousin> because I'm afraid 你 won't 爱情 me if I'm not". That'll make them think and 你 didn't do anything wrong! ;)

Plus, you're better in art, music, writing, etc. So do something with it!

Write some 音乐 或者 paint something 或者 write an awesome story so your mom will brag about 你 with your aunt! ;).

Hope I could help! Take care!

that's always happen to me ,don't listen to your parents , put an aim and go for ,make a plan ,believe in yourself ,you can be 更多 excellent than him/her

i have the exact same problem the only difference is taht all my sousins are amarter than me.. i have 2 other cousins who are in the same garde as me and they are all really talented and really same. where i come from which is like a asian family. our parents have really high expectations. so if 你 are like the runt in my family. bad luck for you.

anyways. to answer your question. in my experience. try your best to ignore it. trust me its not gonna be easy. 你 are gonna feel at some point 你 cant take it and just wanna kill urself (figuratively) every grade if not an A 或者 full marks 你 get back 你 are gonna feel like 你 have been a failure. so 你 if 你 are like me who cant accept such thing easily, 你 push and push. and eventually, it too much. i was like literally sleep deprived for months. many times, i would just wanna collapse but i did my best. trying telling yourself, if u did ur best, it was good.
dont beat yourself up too much about it. it just gonna eat at you. i'm myself am still struggling with this everyday. the want and the need for perfection. but it helps to talk to someone about it. to just vent your anger at a very good friend. also i understand that the need to the moment 你 get your grades to compare to others and all this comparison within ur peers is not helping. if 你 just wanna find out how much they scored. just to get like an estimate whether it was just 你 或者 the test was really hard, then should but just within a few friends. dont try to compete with others, compete with yourself. it is your goal that 你 wanna beat not others. so disregard what grades your cousin 或者 peers are getting. focus on YOU! it only matters if 你 did not reach the standard 你 expected to reach. of course, dont go setting ridiculous standard that 你 know 你 cannot reach instead set realistic ones. it will help your grades improve.

as for your parents, i understand 你 are from india and i know what it is like there. i go to an international school so i now the pressure 你 guys have from your parents, garnted it may not be as much as how much my parents give me. but i get the general i dea. 你 parents, will never stop comparing 你 grades with others. in my 15 (techinically my birthday has not reach.. hehe) years of life, my parents have not stop comparing me to my cousins and even my friends. she made 老友记 with some of my 老友记 mom and compared grades. most of them, i consider smarter then me. either ways, i have notice that arts dont compare to academics, academics is always most important. if 你 can try to build a better relationship with your parents. like do 你 share a common interest with your mum 或者 dad. talk to them about it, soon they will get to know 你 better and see what else u have to offer. and they might be 更多 accepting and tell your aunts and uncles 或者 " so what if your son/daughter is really smart at academics, my daughter can play the daughter can play the 钢琴 as well as bethoven (hyperbo

Hey, believe in yourself.

Your mum has no reason to be upset with you. Talk to her about how you're feeling, she should understand. Make sure she takes notice when 你 do something well. For instance, your art, music, literature, painting and writing. Your mum should be gloating about your talents. You're the kind of artistic, creative person that will always have far 更多 job opportunities than someone who is totally based academically. As long as your grades are ok and 你 pass your exams (no matter if it's a C 或者 an A, as long as you've passed them) then 你 will, honestly.

Don't let it get to you, just hold your head up high and know remember that you're you no one else. And 你 don't need to be.

Chin up, and focus on your talents, don't worry about your cousin. And also, I may only be a teenager, but if I had a kid, I would far prefer him/her to be good at the things that you're good at. I'm just saying that, grades aren't all a person wishes for in their kid.

Keep smiling!

=)

Just get over it and shrug off this matter. Dont blame ur mum 4 this. Just explain it to her calmly that how u feel and how u think u r different and should not be judged to ur cousin. let her know that u cant be like him completely. he's different u r different. then she will understand this matter. And most importantly, dont be depressed about this. it also happens to me. i dont take it too seriously. and know that 你 r not going to be like him.

me too my mom and my older sister is always comparing me to my cousin because she is thin and she always gets good grades and play with her little siblings and always listen to her mom and i do listen to my mom but play 音乐 and sing and im not fat im 70 pounds and i look good but they want me to be like a straw and they always take my phone and i hate them for doing that