I just wanted to share with all of 你 these beauty and inspirational words that I found on The Secret Official Site. Enjoy 'em! Feel 'em!
[i]You can completely transform any relationship, no matter what it's like right now. Every single relationship 你 have is a reflection of how 你 feel inside about you. 你 are a magnet attracting to 你 all things, via the signal 你 are emitting through your thoughts and feelings. Every relationship 你 have and every interaction with every person, is a reflection of your own thoughts and feelings in that very moment.
Designed to help people who suffer repeated bouts of depression and chronic unhappiness. It combines the ideas of cognitive therapy with meditative practices and attitudes based on the cultivation of mindfulness
How to Stop Complaining: The first step is to not complain! 秒 you’ll have 4 alternative options: Change your behavior / Change the way 你 look at the situation / Speak out and offer possible solutions / Accept it as something 你 cannot change and recognize the futility and destructiveness in complaining about it. The purpose is to train your mind to focus on solutions, what you’re grateful for, and what 你 want instead of complaints.
Despite your initial relief, complaining is like a virus eating away any sort of happiness, responsibility, and purpose in your life. Actually when 你 complain 你 will usually get 更多 of what 你 are complaining about!