I was 17 years of age when I lost my virginity. It was with guy named Brandon, he was also 17. We were friends in the beginning, but eventually we started going out. It was about 2 months into it when we decided to just go ahead and have sex. Thank god we had a good school sex program though that taught us the right way of handling sex safely the first time. So hence we used protection. I was ready and he was ready as well, so there was no pressure at all. We both merely saw it as an experience for the both of us and we never (to this day) regretted it, there is no point in doing that IMO. Also, I didn't see my virginity as a "sacred" thing, I actually saw it as a burden, mainly because my masturbation sessions were not up to par with a hymen and I was one of the unfortunate ones not to have broke it while just playing hard as a child. But, still I wasn't going to do it until I was ready.
Anyway, I digress. I'm not going to lie, it physically hurt like hell in the beginning. But, I've heard it's different for every girl. I also bled a lot, but after that it was easy breezy and fun. I enjoy sex to this day with my current husband.
Anyway, I digress. I'm not going to lie, it physically hurt like hell in the beginning. But, I've heard it's different for every girl. I also bled a lot, but after that it was easy breezy and fun. I enjoy sex to this day with my current husband.