The Naked Aries
Aries, who is anything but vanilla. In some ways, this cardinal 火, 消防 sign is straightforward. Headstrong and willful, direct and impatient, Rams charge through their sex lives without so many of the exotic twists that slow down some other signs. Aries isn’t interested in needless variation; as far as sex is concerned, they want it vigorous, and they want it now. They rarely offer anything less than straight-up, full-tilt lust. As direct as it is, though, even Aries has its kinks. Spontaneous sex in unplanned places is often a turn-on. Aries is not necessarily an exhibitionist, but there’s something delicious about wanting each other so badly that you’re willing to risk a charge of indecent exposure. The hallway at 首页 will do — 或者 the garage, 或者 the 兜帽, 罩, 发动机罩 of the car — anywhere, really, so long as it involves the prospect of wild, do-it-right-here-and-now action. Aries also likes angry sex. The Aries libido runs parallel to the Aries will; switching an angry Ram into a horny one is an incredibly easy trick. Just let them know you’re turned on, and they’ll instantly forget an argument, at least for as long as it takes to work out your frustrations right there on the dining room floor. It’s not uncommon for this sign to get off on causing pain. The Arian Mars, especially in combination with a power-sensitive sign such as Capricorn 或者 Scorpio, can indicate a taste for full-fledged sadism. Most are content with the whimpers they get from minor discourtesies (such as penetrating a little too abruptly, 或者 biting a little too hard) but many also enjoy the outright screams of pleasure mixed with pain. If you’re into a bit of pain as an erotic experience, Aries is often willing to accommodate; just make sure to set firm boundaries, and insist that your Aries respects them. They can be headstrong at times.
Taurus the Hedonist
Pleasure-hungry Taurus. Taurus is the most sensual influence in the zodiac, bar none. Ruled 由 Venus, Taureans live to be pleasurably stimulated. Great food, good wine, fine music, long afternoons spent lounging in lavish comfort — if it involves pleasing sensations, Taurus is there. In the bedroom, this is an obvious plus. There’s no sign like Taurus for creating a lavish experience out of even the simplest sexual encounter; decadent foreplay is one of their specialties. The sense of taste, in particular, is highly developed. Whole-body oral exploration turns them on (so long as 你 taste nice) and many Taureans like to incorporate 食物 into sexual scenarios. Does the idea of sharing a ripe 芒果 in the 淋浴 turn 你 on? The 更多 senses involved, the 更多 Taurus likes it. This hedonistic tendency is tied inextricably to self-indulgence. They’re always quick to take the less active position, such as lying prone with the partner on top. With Venus, however, this is not due to a desire to be dominated; it’s due to the “Please me!” nature of Venus herself. Like any self-respecting romance novel heroine, Venus wants to lie back and … well, be pleasured. So long as it feels good, Taurus is content to sit back and enjoy the scenery. In fact, Taurus alone isn’t very kinky at all. The stronger the Taurean influence, the 更多 conservative the sex drive. This holds true even in nonstandard relationships, such as same-sex 或者 poly. It’s not that Taurus is inhibited — it’s definitely not — but Taurus prefers to stick with the tried -and-true pleasures that have worked so well in the past. (This tendency is strongest in the Taurus Mars, where some of the Venusian sensuality is lost, as well.) To find a truly experimental Taurus, you’ll need to look for other influences, such as Aquarius/Uranus, 或者 Scorpio/Pluto.
The Gemini Electric
Above all else, Gemini likes variety. Gemini can’t handle boredom, including boredom in the bedroom. This sign approaches sex like some people approach potluck dinners: a little of this, a little of that, and a little 更多 of that mystery 沙锅, 砂锅 they couldn’t quite identify the first time around. They will usually try anything once, just to see what it’s like. Sexual curiosity is one of Gemini’s most attractive features, though it can lead to a desire for multiple partners. While one option is infidelity and revolving-door relationships, another is polyamory. Gemini is well-suited to multiple-partner 或者 open arrangements, if they can learn to make (and keep!) the mutual agreements that are involved. The Twins are not possessive 或者 territorial 由 nature, and they have 更多 than enough chatty charm to satisfy two 或者 three steady partners at once. But the actual Mercury sex drive isn’t the strongest, especially in the Gemini Mars. The Twins are rarely the smoldering-volcano-of-barely-suppressed-lust types; their energy is light, flirtatious, and inquisitive. Like uncontained low-voltage electricity, it darts and sparkles, barely touching down. Sometimes the Gemini libido behaves like a demon-possessed light switch, switching itself on and off at inopportune moments. It usually resurfaces again just as quickly, though, often at a surprisingly different wavelength. Other chart factors can add sensuality and passion, but for the most part Gemini is 更多 imaginative than physical. They shine at verbal sex, be it flirtation, phone sex, 或者 dirty talk (they’re often fantastic at oral as well) and some folks with multiple planets in Gemini actually prefer noncontact relationships to physical encounters. Most Gemini people are good with their hands, too, and like cooperative masturbation.
Beneath the Shell of Cancer
Cancer is a very nurturing, maternal sign, and “maternal” doesn’t always jibe with “hot sex” in our cultural imagination. Many Crabs do tend to wear a prudish-looking shell, especially in public — but for the most part it’s just an act, designed to protect sensitive sexual emotions. And yes, Cancerian sexuality is always tied to emotionality, and it takes a while for this sign to open up — but once they do, they can be very intense, not to mention kinky in a very unique way. Since Cancer traditionally rules the breast, it’s 说 that Cancerians are boob men (or boob gals, as the case may be.) This is often true, but here’s another tidbit: Crabs like bums, too. They often 爱情 rear-entry positions and anal sex, as well as spanking. If spanking, paddling, 或者 caning is one of your turn-ons, whether male 或者 female, spanker 或者 spankee, 你 can usually find a Cancer happy to oblige. If this can be turned into a discipline game, so much the better. Cancer females can really get into a good game of “dirty teacher/naughty student,” and Cancer males can make great naughty students themselves. While Cancer may not seem like the best candidate for the Domination 最佳, 返回页首 Ten, they can surprise the unsuspecting. Leather and spikes are not to their taste, though. Cancerian domination is 更多 emotional, and often results in situational scenarios that tease the sense of vulnerability and taboo rather than pain 或者 physical submission. A Cancer with a strong dose of Mercury (particularly Virgo on the Ascendant 或者 Mars in Virgo) can also enjoy medical play, ranging from NC-17-rated “dirty nurse” games, to fantasies that involve elaborate setup, special equipment, and at least an XX rating.
The Leo Sensation
In the areas of life that require clothing, Leo is larger than life. Dramatic yet sensitive, generous yet self-centered, these big felines have oversized hearts and egos to match. The Leo energy is pure Sun energy — hot, bright, and always at the center of some personal universe. Sexual Leo is no different. Leo as a sexual energy is strong, steady, and charismatic; the Lion seeks 爱情 in the form of adoration and applause, and usually gives a great performance in the bedroom. It’s often a standard performance — this sign is a traditionalist at its core, especially as a Sun sign — but there are a few unconventional areas in which Leo shines. They can be summed up in one word: exhibitionism. Leo is a show-off, and the Leo Mars and Venus in particular 爱情 to be watched and admired. Video libraries of do-it-yourself porn are a Leo specialty, and erotic 摄影 (involving themselves, of course) also has a strong appeal. Give them plenty of admiration, and they’ll fill a thousand sim cards with their naked adventures. Some Leos enjoy performing in public. There’s at least a touch of Leo in all the best exotic dancers, performance artists, drag performers, and sex 显示 workers (this kind of unconventionality goes against their basically conservative nature, though, and requires an additional concentration of air-sign placements 或者 Uranus contacts.) Many professional porn stars also have Leo prominent in some part of their charts. Role-playing can also appeal. One of the biggest complaints about sex with Leo is its tendency to become predictable. Even the greatest 显示 gets boring after you’ve seen it a couple hundred times, but role-playing can be an easy, fun remedy. Once Leo is confident that they know what’s expected, they’ll happily take on various 幻想 roles. Offering to film the encounter sweetens the deal!
Virgo, the Fallen Angel
Virgo, one of the kinkiest signs around. The symbol for Virgo is the Virgin, and it helps to keep in mind when dealing with this highly paradoxical sign. No matter how many times they’ve been around the block, Virgos always seem as fussy and particular as a first-timer. Don’t be fooled — this is only one half of this dual sign. Make no mistake: Virgo is dual, just like Gemini 或者 Pisces, but Virgo often hides its duality, even from itself. As an earth sign, they are less comfortable with the changeability of their mutable natures and often seek to suppress it. Part of Virgo wants to remain pristine and proper, while the other part wants to get down and dirty. Virgo enacts the tense “virgin/whore” polarity in almost all aspects of life, and this can result in some intriguing bedroom quirks, to say the least. Foremost, Virgo is Mercury-ruled, and can build elaborate mental fences around their most taboo desires. They tend to create exacting-but-arbitrary conditions under which specific desires can be satisfied (as in “only if her name starts with P,” 或者 “only on a Tuesday during tax season.”) If a Virgin violates her own rules, she feels unpleasantly grubby. If her conditions are met, she feels just dirty enough — she maintains her “virgin” status but has 给 the “whore” her due. Both the dirt and the whore metaphors can become a literal part of Virgo’s sex life. Your Virgo may cringe in horror if 你 have a spot on your shirt, but then the duality strikes: 你 discover that he has a real lust for sex in dirty, squalid, 或者 even demeaning locations. Or, after fainting dead away when 你 forget to wash your hands in the restroom, they may inform 你 that they’re turned on 由 the idea of scat play, enema play, and watersports. The contradictions can be surprising.
The Libran Ideal
Libra, that most romantic and particular of lovers. Like Taurus, Libra is ruled 由 pleasure-loving Venus, but there’s a distinct difference. In earthy Taurus, Venusian desire is grounded in physical pleasure, but in Libra, the Goddess of 爱情 is all air. Where earth Venus manifests as sensuality, air Venus manifests as aesthetic ideals. Airy Libra is often 更多 turned on 由 ideals of physical pleasure than 由 the experience itself. They can be very good lovers, if 你 fit one of their mental 幻想 frames. They 爱情 to visualize themselves giving as good as they’re getting, and are eager to please — they have standards to meet, 你 know — and once 你 find a shared mental picture that won’t offend the Libran aesthetic sensibilities, sex can be erotic and imaginative. Sexy lingerie, flattering candlelight, and appropriate 音乐 are favorites; the closer a Libran can get to a picture-perfect romantic scenario, the happier they’ll be. Librans like to watch. This is one of the most voyeuristic signs in the zodiac — if the situation is appealing, that is. For instance, many Librans like porn, but strongly prefer the slick, airbrushed type. Amateur porn is not to their taste, as the 模特 and sex acts are often imperfect; Libra has to accept enough imperfections in real life as it is! Particular though it may be, Libran voyeurism isn’t passive. They prefer to be an active party, visualizing themselves as the center of a sexy threesome 或者 hot quad, possibly even directing the show; Libra Mars is particularly fond of this. Watching themselves in action is another turn-on; mirrors and video recorders are practically a 给 with an uninhibited Libran (but only for the most flattering shots, of course.)
The Scorpio Taboo
According to common wisdom, Scorpio is the sexiest sign around. Even when standing in the cat 食物 aisle at the grocery store, trying to decide between Tuna Tenders and Liver Surprise, Scorpio exudes a mysterious, dark charisma. 你 can be sure that sex in never far from their minds; common wisdom is absolutely correct in this: Scorpio is practically obsessed. Pluto, the planet that rules Scorpio, is powerful and difficult to predict. A strong Pluto often indicates several fundamental realignments of the core self, and a Scorpio at 45 may be an entirely different sexual creature than he was at 25. With even the slightest hint of sexualizing aspects (such as an aspect of Pluto to Mars 或者 the eighth house) at least some of this self-regeneration will take place in the bedroom … 或者 the basement dungeon. Self-renewal requires a confrontation with the hidden aspects of human nature; therefore, Scorpio sexuality often includes elements of the “unacceptable.” Power games are foremost. The most persistently successful master 或者 dominatrix will have the Scorpio/Pluto touch. Other signs may give a strong will to power, but Scorpio gives the intuitive insight and the desire to carry it through — this is a lover who can find and exploit every secret hot spot, whether on your body 或者 in your subconscious. We’re not talking about Bondage Lite, either. Whips, gags, genital torture devices, fully equipped dungeons … 你 name it, Scorpio is willing to use it if necessary. There’s a penetrative aspect to Scorpio, whether male 或者 female, and both sexes tend to enjoy anal sex; if your sweet, mysterious Scorpio lady doesn’t already have a strap-on hidden somewhere in the house, just give her time. Many also have vampire fantasies (Scorpio Venus especially) and some are into blood fetish. The double taboo of sex/death is Pluto’s domain; certain extreme practices, such as consensual erotic asphyxiation, are also Scorpionic in essence.
The Sagittarius Adventure
Sagittarius is represented 由 the Centaur, half-human, half-horse. Ever visit a stud farm during breeding season? Equines who are otherwise decent-enough working 动物 are insane with the urge to breed; the only thing standing between the animals’ urges and utter rutting chaos is the intervention of human handlers. It’s lucky for the rest of us, then, that Sagittarius has its human handler built in — if they’ll stoop to obeying him 或者 her, that is. The sex drive is strong, impulsive, and somewhat conquest-oriented, and some Centaurs end up with 更多 notches on their bedposts than Virgo has little pills. Sagittarius has the ability to easily separate sex from emotion. Security and intimacy are important to Sagittarius, but are not necessarily linked to their fiery physical drives. Spontaneous sexual adventures and one-night stands are usually guilt-free; Sagittarians hate restrictions of all kinds, and the occasional bout of unrestrained sexual freedom can be deeply satisfying in a way that other signs might not readily understand. Sagittarians also make fantastic sex workers, especially if the job calls for live action on demand. They’re not necessarily the show-offs of the sex industry, but practicality and physical vigor 更多 than make up for any lack of showmanship. This is a mutable sign, and its ruler Jupiter lends a cavalier streak — Sagittarius will try anything once. They’re not fond of labels (labels equal limits) but will sometimes compromise outwardly in order to maintain security at home. Hence, 你 find a large number of naturally pansexual Sagittarians maintaining the appearance of a monosexual relationship, while dallying elsewhere with members of both sexes. They’re also attracted to the idea of open relationships, but, like their opposing sign Gemini, sometimes find even open agreements tough to keep; restrictions are restrictions, after all, no matter how generous!
The Complex Capricorn
Capricorn is the sign of authority and ambition. Saturn’s drive for material mastery is readily expressed in that most physical of physical-plane activities, sex. Capricorn lies on the projective, paternal end of the “mama/papa” authority axis, and has a strong influence on sexual preferences. For one thing, depending on where Capricorn falls in the chart, it’s often a clear indicator of BDSM tastes. As counterintuitive as it may seem, Capricorn Suns (and sometimes Capricorn Ascendants) often like to be dominated, and dominated completely, in the bedroom. If this seems odd, think of the proverbial hard-driving executive who secretly visits a dominatrix for various forms of discipline, bondage, and sadomasochistic release. While urban myths like these are often completely goofy in many ways, they can sometimes contain a grain of truth. In this case, the grain of truth is that Saturn is a hard master, and creates a tremendous amount of internal pressure in those he rules. Many Capricorns do find release through complete sexual abandonment; long-term relationships sometimes take the form of a total power exchange, in which the Capricorn in 问题 is relieved of all non-public responsibilities 由 becoming a slave at home. However, this sign can be surprising in 更多 ways than one; it behaves somewhat differently elsewhere in the chart. Venus, Mars, and (sometimes) the Moon in Capricorn are likelier to create a dominant partner than a submissive one. There are differences in how Capricorn influences men and women, too. Strong Capricorn influences are found in the charts of countless 女同性恋 (dominant 或者 not) as well as in the charts of heterosexual women who are direct, projective, and unwilling to compromise themselves simply because they’re women. In the study of gender variance in women, Saturn is key.
The Aquarian Experience
Aquarius is well-known as the most unconventional sign of the Zodiac; they often make for friendly, quirky 爱人 who are open to almost anything. But this is not a personal sign, and their detachment can be puzzling; Aquarius is motivated primarily 由 mental concepts, rather than sex 或者 sentiment. Where another sign might try a swinger’s club primarily for sexual satisfaction, an Aquarian will 加入 because “It’s clearly wrong for society to place such rigid social strictures on something as natural as sex, and we should all do our part to fight these ridiculous man-made restrictions.” Another sign might use that as a truly imaginative justification, but Aquarius means it. Really. Once things 移动 away from an abstract level, though, it gets dicey. Dealing with irrational urges like 爱情 and personal attraction is tricky for WaterBearers; their 爱情 lives are often erratic at best. Aquarian sexual preference is always a highly personalized affair; the “normal” rules of engagement don’t apply. You’ll find them in open relationships, long-distance relationships, cyber relationships, asexual relationships — in short, relationships that others find quite puzzling. This is Uranus we’re talking about — if it makes sense to the Aquarian in question, that’s all that matters. Like their Air sign counterparts Gemini and Libra, Aquarians don’t necessarily have a strong, insistent physical sex drive, but they’re certainly not libido-less. Aquarian Suns with a strong Mars (such as in Aries, Scorpio, 或者 Capricorn) will be as lusty as anyone, even if a bit quirky. But the Aquarian Mars is perhaps the most unconventional sexual indicator of all — so unconventional, in fact, that some folks with this Mars bypass sex altogether, at least at times. Aquarian Mars (and sometimes Venus and the Moon) is able to easily and satisfactorily channel sexual urges into cerebral outlets; extended periods of voluntary celibacy are not uncommon.
The Polymorphously Perverse Pisces
Pisces is the most mutable of the mutable signs. Those influenced 由 this sign are born actors; they can be anything, to anyone, at any time. They can play the top, the bottom, the middle, the outside; one of a twosome, threesome, 或者 fourteensome; the exhibitionist 或者 the voyeur; the boy, the girl, both, 或者 neither — in fact, if 你 can imagine it, Pisces can do it, and probably has. But … why? The key is that Pisceans derive satisfaction almost solely from giving their partners pleasure. So, 你 have a Piscean friend who’s suddenly gone from impeccably-clad, black-tie dominatrix to wispy, giggling, pastel ditz? She’s changed lovers. Her entire persona will draw itself subtly around the new partner’s tastes; she’ll morph into the girl of his 或者 her dreams, with very few compunctions 或者 self-doubts. It’s quite natural and it’s almost subconscious. They’re good at it, too. Pisces influences (particularly the Sun, the Ascendant, 或者 Venus) give a kind of intuition that other folks call “psychic.” When a 鱼 tunes into their lover’s unspoken sexual wavelengths, the result is nothing short of 幻想 fulfillment; they take great pride in their ability to extract and enact even the most carefully hidden desires. Most are fundamentally bisexual, and both sexes often remain attractively gender-fluid. One of the few things that tend to remain constant include an enjoyment of heightened sensation; many Pisceans like a little pain with their pleasure, as well as long, drawn-out teasing sessions 或者 sensual play. The Piscean sex drive is very instinctive and often cyclical. When they’re in heat (with Pisces, this is a completely apt description) everyone within a hundred miles knows it; they radiate a kind of deep sexuality that is similar to Scorpio’s yet slightly 更多 dispersed. Small mobs of admirers accumulate overnight, like alley 猫 when a housebound Persian is feeling frisky.
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Aries, who is anything but vanilla. In some ways, this cardinal 火, 消防 sign is straightforward. Headstrong and willful, direct and impatient, Rams charge through their sex lives without so many of the exotic twists that slow down some other signs. Aries isn’t interested in needless variation; as far as sex is concerned, they want it vigorous, and they want it now. They rarely offer anything less than straight-up, full-tilt lust. As direct as it is, though, even Aries has its kinks. Spontaneous sex in unplanned places is often a turn-on. Aries is not necessarily an exhibitionist, but there’s something delicious about wanting each other so badly that you’re willing to risk a charge of indecent exposure. The hallway at 首页 will do — 或者 the garage, 或者 the 兜帽, 罩, 发动机罩 of the car — anywhere, really, so long as it involves the prospect of wild, do-it-right-here-and-now action. Aries also likes angry sex. The Aries libido runs parallel to the Aries will; switching an angry Ram into a horny one is an incredibly easy trick. Just let them know you’re turned on, and they’ll instantly forget an argument, at least for as long as it takes to work out your frustrations right there on the dining room floor. It’s not uncommon for this sign to get off on causing pain. The Arian Mars, especially in combination with a power-sensitive sign such as Capricorn 或者 Scorpio, can indicate a taste for full-fledged sadism. Most are content with the whimpers they get from minor discourtesies (such as penetrating a little too abruptly, 或者 biting a little too hard) but many also enjoy the outright screams of pleasure mixed with pain. If you’re into a bit of pain as an erotic experience, Aries is often willing to accommodate; just make sure to set firm boundaries, and insist that your Aries respects them. They can be headstrong at times.
Taurus the Hedonist
Pleasure-hungry Taurus. Taurus is the most sensual influence in the zodiac, bar none. Ruled 由 Venus, Taureans live to be pleasurably stimulated. Great food, good wine, fine music, long afternoons spent lounging in lavish comfort — if it involves pleasing sensations, Taurus is there. In the bedroom, this is an obvious plus. There’s no sign like Taurus for creating a lavish experience out of even the simplest sexual encounter; decadent foreplay is one of their specialties. The sense of taste, in particular, is highly developed. Whole-body oral exploration turns them on (so long as 你 taste nice) and many Taureans like to incorporate 食物 into sexual scenarios. Does the idea of sharing a ripe 芒果 in the 淋浴 turn 你 on? The 更多 senses involved, the 更多 Taurus likes it. This hedonistic tendency is tied inextricably to self-indulgence. They’re always quick to take the less active position, such as lying prone with the partner on top. With Venus, however, this is not due to a desire to be dominated; it’s due to the “Please me!” nature of Venus herself. Like any self-respecting romance novel heroine, Venus wants to lie back and … well, be pleasured. So long as it feels good, Taurus is content to sit back and enjoy the scenery. In fact, Taurus alone isn’t very kinky at all. The stronger the Taurean influence, the 更多 conservative the sex drive. This holds true even in nonstandard relationships, such as same-sex 或者 poly. It’s not that Taurus is inhibited — it’s definitely not — but Taurus prefers to stick with the tried -and-true pleasures that have worked so well in the past. (This tendency is strongest in the Taurus Mars, where some of the Venusian sensuality is lost, as well.) To find a truly experimental Taurus, you’ll need to look for other influences, such as Aquarius/Uranus, 或者 Scorpio/Pluto.
The Gemini Electric
Above all else, Gemini likes variety. Gemini can’t handle boredom, including boredom in the bedroom. This sign approaches sex like some people approach potluck dinners: a little of this, a little of that, and a little 更多 of that mystery 沙锅, 砂锅 they couldn’t quite identify the first time around. They will usually try anything once, just to see what it’s like. Sexual curiosity is one of Gemini’s most attractive features, though it can lead to a desire for multiple partners. While one option is infidelity and revolving-door relationships, another is polyamory. Gemini is well-suited to multiple-partner 或者 open arrangements, if they can learn to make (and keep!) the mutual agreements that are involved. The Twins are not possessive 或者 territorial 由 nature, and they have 更多 than enough chatty charm to satisfy two 或者 three steady partners at once. But the actual Mercury sex drive isn’t the strongest, especially in the Gemini Mars. The Twins are rarely the smoldering-volcano-of-barely-suppressed-lust types; their energy is light, flirtatious, and inquisitive. Like uncontained low-voltage electricity, it darts and sparkles, barely touching down. Sometimes the Gemini libido behaves like a demon-possessed light switch, switching itself on and off at inopportune moments. It usually resurfaces again just as quickly, though, often at a surprisingly different wavelength. Other chart factors can add sensuality and passion, but for the most part Gemini is 更多 imaginative than physical. They shine at verbal sex, be it flirtation, phone sex, 或者 dirty talk (they’re often fantastic at oral as well) and some folks with multiple planets in Gemini actually prefer noncontact relationships to physical encounters. Most Gemini people are good with their hands, too, and like cooperative masturbation.
Beneath the Shell of Cancer
Cancer is a very nurturing, maternal sign, and “maternal” doesn’t always jibe with “hot sex” in our cultural imagination. Many Crabs do tend to wear a prudish-looking shell, especially in public — but for the most part it’s just an act, designed to protect sensitive sexual emotions. And yes, Cancerian sexuality is always tied to emotionality, and it takes a while for this sign to open up — but once they do, they can be very intense, not to mention kinky in a very unique way. Since Cancer traditionally rules the breast, it’s 说 that Cancerians are boob men (or boob gals, as the case may be.) This is often true, but here’s another tidbit: Crabs like bums, too. They often 爱情 rear-entry positions and anal sex, as well as spanking. If spanking, paddling, 或者 caning is one of your turn-ons, whether male 或者 female, spanker 或者 spankee, 你 can usually find a Cancer happy to oblige. If this can be turned into a discipline game, so much the better. Cancer females can really get into a good game of “dirty teacher/naughty student,” and Cancer males can make great naughty students themselves. While Cancer may not seem like the best candidate for the Domination 最佳, 返回页首 Ten, they can surprise the unsuspecting. Leather and spikes are not to their taste, though. Cancerian domination is 更多 emotional, and often results in situational scenarios that tease the sense of vulnerability and taboo rather than pain 或者 physical submission. A Cancer with a strong dose of Mercury (particularly Virgo on the Ascendant 或者 Mars in Virgo) can also enjoy medical play, ranging from NC-17-rated “dirty nurse” games, to fantasies that involve elaborate setup, special equipment, and at least an XX rating.
The Leo Sensation
In the areas of life that require clothing, Leo is larger than life. Dramatic yet sensitive, generous yet self-centered, these big felines have oversized hearts and egos to match. The Leo energy is pure Sun energy — hot, bright, and always at the center of some personal universe. Sexual Leo is no different. Leo as a sexual energy is strong, steady, and charismatic; the Lion seeks 爱情 in the form of adoration and applause, and usually gives a great performance in the bedroom. It’s often a standard performance — this sign is a traditionalist at its core, especially as a Sun sign — but there are a few unconventional areas in which Leo shines. They can be summed up in one word: exhibitionism. Leo is a show-off, and the Leo Mars and Venus in particular 爱情 to be watched and admired. Video libraries of do-it-yourself porn are a Leo specialty, and erotic 摄影 (involving themselves, of course) also has a strong appeal. Give them plenty of admiration, and they’ll fill a thousand sim cards with their naked adventures. Some Leos enjoy performing in public. There’s at least a touch of Leo in all the best exotic dancers, performance artists, drag performers, and sex 显示 workers (this kind of unconventionality goes against their basically conservative nature, though, and requires an additional concentration of air-sign placements 或者 Uranus contacts.) Many professional porn stars also have Leo prominent in some part of their charts. Role-playing can also appeal. One of the biggest complaints about sex with Leo is its tendency to become predictable. Even the greatest 显示 gets boring after you’ve seen it a couple hundred times, but role-playing can be an easy, fun remedy. Once Leo is confident that they know what’s expected, they’ll happily take on various 幻想 roles. Offering to film the encounter sweetens the deal!
Virgo, the Fallen Angel
Virgo, one of the kinkiest signs around. The symbol for Virgo is the Virgin, and it helps to keep in mind when dealing with this highly paradoxical sign. No matter how many times they’ve been around the block, Virgos always seem as fussy and particular as a first-timer. Don’t be fooled — this is only one half of this dual sign. Make no mistake: Virgo is dual, just like Gemini 或者 Pisces, but Virgo often hides its duality, even from itself. As an earth sign, they are less comfortable with the changeability of their mutable natures and often seek to suppress it. Part of Virgo wants to remain pristine and proper, while the other part wants to get down and dirty. Virgo enacts the tense “virgin/whore” polarity in almost all aspects of life, and this can result in some intriguing bedroom quirks, to say the least. Foremost, Virgo is Mercury-ruled, and can build elaborate mental fences around their most taboo desires. They tend to create exacting-but-arbitrary conditions under which specific desires can be satisfied (as in “only if her name starts with P,” 或者 “only on a Tuesday during tax season.”) If a Virgin violates her own rules, she feels unpleasantly grubby. If her conditions are met, she feels just dirty enough — she maintains her “virgin” status but has 给 the “whore” her due. Both the dirt and the whore metaphors can become a literal part of Virgo’s sex life. Your Virgo may cringe in horror if 你 have a spot on your shirt, but then the duality strikes: 你 discover that he has a real lust for sex in dirty, squalid, 或者 even demeaning locations. Or, after fainting dead away when 你 forget to wash your hands in the restroom, they may inform 你 that they’re turned on 由 the idea of scat play, enema play, and watersports. The contradictions can be surprising.
The Libran Ideal
Libra, that most romantic and particular of lovers. Like Taurus, Libra is ruled 由 pleasure-loving Venus, but there’s a distinct difference. In earthy Taurus, Venusian desire is grounded in physical pleasure, but in Libra, the Goddess of 爱情 is all air. Where earth Venus manifests as sensuality, air Venus manifests as aesthetic ideals. Airy Libra is often 更多 turned on 由 ideals of physical pleasure than 由 the experience itself. They can be very good lovers, if 你 fit one of their mental 幻想 frames. They 爱情 to visualize themselves giving as good as they’re getting, and are eager to please — they have standards to meet, 你 know — and once 你 find a shared mental picture that won’t offend the Libran aesthetic sensibilities, sex can be erotic and imaginative. Sexy lingerie, flattering candlelight, and appropriate 音乐 are favorites; the closer a Libran can get to a picture-perfect romantic scenario, the happier they’ll be. Librans like to watch. This is one of the most voyeuristic signs in the zodiac — if the situation is appealing, that is. For instance, many Librans like porn, but strongly prefer the slick, airbrushed type. Amateur porn is not to their taste, as the 模特 and sex acts are often imperfect; Libra has to accept enough imperfections in real life as it is! Particular though it may be, Libran voyeurism isn’t passive. They prefer to be an active party, visualizing themselves as the center of a sexy threesome 或者 hot quad, possibly even directing the show; Libra Mars is particularly fond of this. Watching themselves in action is another turn-on; mirrors and video recorders are practically a 给 with an uninhibited Libran (but only for the most flattering shots, of course.)
The Scorpio Taboo
According to common wisdom, Scorpio is the sexiest sign around. Even when standing in the cat 食物 aisle at the grocery store, trying to decide between Tuna Tenders and Liver Surprise, Scorpio exudes a mysterious, dark charisma. 你 can be sure that sex in never far from their minds; common wisdom is absolutely correct in this: Scorpio is practically obsessed. Pluto, the planet that rules Scorpio, is powerful and difficult to predict. A strong Pluto often indicates several fundamental realignments of the core self, and a Scorpio at 45 may be an entirely different sexual creature than he was at 25. With even the slightest hint of sexualizing aspects (such as an aspect of Pluto to Mars 或者 the eighth house) at least some of this self-regeneration will take place in the bedroom … 或者 the basement dungeon. Self-renewal requires a confrontation with the hidden aspects of human nature; therefore, Scorpio sexuality often includes elements of the “unacceptable.” Power games are foremost. The most persistently successful master 或者 dominatrix will have the Scorpio/Pluto touch. Other signs may give a strong will to power, but Scorpio gives the intuitive insight and the desire to carry it through — this is a lover who can find and exploit every secret hot spot, whether on your body 或者 in your subconscious. We’re not talking about Bondage Lite, either. Whips, gags, genital torture devices, fully equipped dungeons … 你 name it, Scorpio is willing to use it if necessary. There’s a penetrative aspect to Scorpio, whether male 或者 female, and both sexes tend to enjoy anal sex; if your sweet, mysterious Scorpio lady doesn’t already have a strap-on hidden somewhere in the house, just give her time. Many also have vampire fantasies (Scorpio Venus especially) and some are into blood fetish. The double taboo of sex/death is Pluto’s domain; certain extreme practices, such as consensual erotic asphyxiation, are also Scorpionic in essence.
The Sagittarius Adventure
Sagittarius is represented 由 the Centaur, half-human, half-horse. Ever visit a stud farm during breeding season? Equines who are otherwise decent-enough working 动物 are insane with the urge to breed; the only thing standing between the animals’ urges and utter rutting chaos is the intervention of human handlers. It’s lucky for the rest of us, then, that Sagittarius has its human handler built in — if they’ll stoop to obeying him 或者 her, that is. The sex drive is strong, impulsive, and somewhat conquest-oriented, and some Centaurs end up with 更多 notches on their bedposts than Virgo has little pills. Sagittarius has the ability to easily separate sex from emotion. Security and intimacy are important to Sagittarius, but are not necessarily linked to their fiery physical drives. Spontaneous sexual adventures and one-night stands are usually guilt-free; Sagittarians hate restrictions of all kinds, and the occasional bout of unrestrained sexual freedom can be deeply satisfying in a way that other signs might not readily understand. Sagittarians also make fantastic sex workers, especially if the job calls for live action on demand. They’re not necessarily the show-offs of the sex industry, but practicality and physical vigor 更多 than make up for any lack of showmanship. This is a mutable sign, and its ruler Jupiter lends a cavalier streak — Sagittarius will try anything once. They’re not fond of labels (labels equal limits) but will sometimes compromise outwardly in order to maintain security at home. Hence, 你 find a large number of naturally pansexual Sagittarians maintaining the appearance of a monosexual relationship, while dallying elsewhere with members of both sexes. They’re also attracted to the idea of open relationships, but, like their opposing sign Gemini, sometimes find even open agreements tough to keep; restrictions are restrictions, after all, no matter how generous!
The Complex Capricorn
Capricorn is the sign of authority and ambition. Saturn’s drive for material mastery is readily expressed in that most physical of physical-plane activities, sex. Capricorn lies on the projective, paternal end of the “mama/papa” authority axis, and has a strong influence on sexual preferences. For one thing, depending on where Capricorn falls in the chart, it’s often a clear indicator of BDSM tastes. As counterintuitive as it may seem, Capricorn Suns (and sometimes Capricorn Ascendants) often like to be dominated, and dominated completely, in the bedroom. If this seems odd, think of the proverbial hard-driving executive who secretly visits a dominatrix for various forms of discipline, bondage, and sadomasochistic release. While urban myths like these are often completely goofy in many ways, they can sometimes contain a grain of truth. In this case, the grain of truth is that Saturn is a hard master, and creates a tremendous amount of internal pressure in those he rules. Many Capricorns do find release through complete sexual abandonment; long-term relationships sometimes take the form of a total power exchange, in which the Capricorn in 问题 is relieved of all non-public responsibilities 由 becoming a slave at home. However, this sign can be surprising in 更多 ways than one; it behaves somewhat differently elsewhere in the chart. Venus, Mars, and (sometimes) the Moon in Capricorn are likelier to create a dominant partner than a submissive one. There are differences in how Capricorn influences men and women, too. Strong Capricorn influences are found in the charts of countless 女同性恋 (dominant 或者 not) as well as in the charts of heterosexual women who are direct, projective, and unwilling to compromise themselves simply because they’re women. In the study of gender variance in women, Saturn is key.
The Aquarian Experience
Aquarius is well-known as the most unconventional sign of the Zodiac; they often make for friendly, quirky 爱人 who are open to almost anything. But this is not a personal sign, and their detachment can be puzzling; Aquarius is motivated primarily 由 mental concepts, rather than sex 或者 sentiment. Where another sign might try a swinger’s club primarily for sexual satisfaction, an Aquarian will 加入 because “It’s clearly wrong for society to place such rigid social strictures on something as natural as sex, and we should all do our part to fight these ridiculous man-made restrictions.” Another sign might use that as a truly imaginative justification, but Aquarius means it. Really. Once things 移动 away from an abstract level, though, it gets dicey. Dealing with irrational urges like 爱情 and personal attraction is tricky for WaterBearers; their 爱情 lives are often erratic at best. Aquarian sexual preference is always a highly personalized affair; the “normal” rules of engagement don’t apply. You’ll find them in open relationships, long-distance relationships, cyber relationships, asexual relationships — in short, relationships that others find quite puzzling. This is Uranus we’re talking about — if it makes sense to the Aquarian in question, that’s all that matters. Like their Air sign counterparts Gemini and Libra, Aquarians don’t necessarily have a strong, insistent physical sex drive, but they’re certainly not libido-less. Aquarian Suns with a strong Mars (such as in Aries, Scorpio, 或者 Capricorn) will be as lusty as anyone, even if a bit quirky. But the Aquarian Mars is perhaps the most unconventional sexual indicator of all — so unconventional, in fact, that some folks with this Mars bypass sex altogether, at least at times. Aquarian Mars (and sometimes Venus and the Moon) is able to easily and satisfactorily channel sexual urges into cerebral outlets; extended periods of voluntary celibacy are not uncommon.
The Polymorphously Perverse Pisces
Pisces is the most mutable of the mutable signs. Those influenced 由 this sign are born actors; they can be anything, to anyone, at any time. They can play the top, the bottom, the middle, the outside; one of a twosome, threesome, 或者 fourteensome; the exhibitionist 或者 the voyeur; the boy, the girl, both, 或者 neither — in fact, if 你 can imagine it, Pisces can do it, and probably has. But … why? The key is that Pisceans derive satisfaction almost solely from giving their partners pleasure. So, 你 have a Piscean friend who’s suddenly gone from impeccably-clad, black-tie dominatrix to wispy, giggling, pastel ditz? She’s changed lovers. Her entire persona will draw itself subtly around the new partner’s tastes; she’ll morph into the girl of his 或者 her dreams, with very few compunctions 或者 self-doubts. It’s quite natural and it’s almost subconscious. They’re good at it, too. Pisces influences (particularly the Sun, the Ascendant, 或者 Venus) give a kind of intuition that other folks call “psychic.” When a 鱼 tunes into their lover’s unspoken sexual wavelengths, the result is nothing short of 幻想 fulfillment; they take great pride in their ability to extract and enact even the most carefully hidden desires. Most are fundamentally bisexual, and both sexes often remain attractively gender-fluid. One of the few things that tend to remain constant include an enjoyment of heightened sensation; many Pisceans like a little pain with their pleasure, as well as long, drawn-out teasing sessions 或者 sensual play. The Piscean sex drive is very instinctive and often cyclical. When they’re in heat (with Pisces, this is a completely apt description) everyone within a hundred miles knows it; they radiate a kind of deep sexuality that is similar to Scorpio’s yet slightly 更多 dispersed. Small mobs of admirers accumulate overnight, like alley 猫 when a housebound Persian is feeling frisky.
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