The following is how to prepare a woman's mind for incredible sex. If 你 do this even halfway right, her mind will prepare her body for an unforgettable night. What do I mean? Your words and actions will affect her mood. Her mood will affect her body. Once 你 get her going in the right direction it gets easier as the night goes on. So where do 你 start?
Romance is 更多 than a candle lit dinner, 玫瑰 and a gift. Romance is an attitude. The secret to being romantic is to bathe a woman's mind with thoughtfulness, fun, tenderness and security, without smothering her 或者 表演 needy. All women have different personalities and expectations so it is up to 你 to find out what she desires and what combination of romance works best with her. One woman may find it romantic for 你 to plan a night at the ballet while another may find a camping trip to be the most romantic event.
THINGS TO SAY TO A WOMAN
Communication is the key. Talk to your lover like she is your mistress and she will respond as a mistress. Talk to her like she is on old gym bag and she will respond like an old gym bag. Here are some ideas;
1. Compliment her physical appearance, especially her hair, clothes, shoes and perfume.
A woman wears these things for herself but she also wears them for you. Take notice and compliment her on other things. She will feel assured and confident that 你 are impressed and she will feel good about herself. Always compliment what she is wearing even when she is dressed very casual. Women are always conscience about their clothes. 你 can get a lot of hints from women themselves, as they compliment each other. The 更多 你 compliment a woman on her appearance, her sexiness, her sexual performance, 或者 anything she does, the harder she will try to please you. Take note of what they say. It is all part of preparing her mind for uninhibited sex.
2. Ask her how her 日 was.
Be careful with this 问题 and use your best judgment because it could open up a can of worms. If she is angry about anything, 你 may hear about it after asking, but she may take it as a thoughtful gesture and respond with appreciation. If she doesn't respond with appreciation, it is up to 你 to tactfully change the subject ASAP 或者 help her view the situation from a positive viewpoint. 你 have 更多 control over her than 你 may think. Remember that 你 are trying to create an atmosphere that is free for sexual expression.
3. Let her know how 你 feel about her and what it’s like to make 爱情 to her.
I know this is hard for some of you, but if 你 want better sex and a better sexual response out of your lover 你 will at least try the following.
In a sense, 你 should talk to her as if she is your mistress. In other words, if sex has become a routine, break the routine. Now some of 你 still don't know what I am talking about so let me fill 你 in.
4. As 你 make 爱情 to her, starting with the first touch to the last, tell her what 你 are experiencing. Let her know what it is like to 吻乐队（Kiss） her, touch her, hold her, 爱情 her, look at her, smell her, see her expressions. On the other hand, tell her how good she makes 你 feel while she gives 你 sexual attention.
5. Build your lover up in front of others; Compliment her, brag about her.
6. Unless the passion is so strong that 你 find yourself ripping your clothes off for a quickie, I suggest as a general rule of thumb to saturate your lover with foreplay until she verbally 或者 physically asks, insists 或者 begs 你 to make 爱情 to her. In this way 你 will know she is ready and she will be much 更多 responsive to lovemaking. Now that 你 have reached this stage, start teasing her, as slow as 你 can go, inch 由 inch, a little in, a little out, take as much time as 你 can in giving her all you've got. Your objective is to draw her mind into a state of desire, want and need, which leads to satisfying those desires.
7. Hear her.
Most women will let 你 know what they want, but the problem is they usually express it with sarcasm 或者 resentment. If a woman says, "…you've never taken me to see a play at the downtown theater…". She is really telling 你 that she wants 你 to plan a special evening of a nice dinner, a play, then sex all night. So when she sounds like she is complaining, she may be asking for romance.
8. If a woman ever tells 你 how good 你 look, she is really asking 你 to notice her and compliment her.
9. Find out what she expects 你 to do for her family during Christmas, birthdays and other special events.
10. Wake up! Many things a woman does 或者 says is the opposite of what she really means.
