Just an 文章 i read on the effects of alcohol and sex in general...any comments, experiences, ideas (either on alcohol 或者 sex) welcome.
Find out why too much alcohol can be a sexual turn-off for 你 both.
Drinking alcohol to excess can make good sex go bad. Dr Abigael San, clinical psychologist and alcohol expert, says this is because alcohol reduces both men's and women's sexual sensitivity.
"In both sexes, sexual response is reduced 由 regular and prolonged drinking," she says.
"In men, alcohol can cause difficulties getting and maintaining an erection - while women may experience reduced lubrication, find it harder to have an orgasm, 或者 have orgasms that are less intense."
Many people mistakenly believe that alcohol is an aphrodisiac. However, over time too much alcohol can actually put a dampener on your sex drive.
Sexual side-effects
Drinking too much over an extended period of time can turn a temporary condition like 'Brewer's Droop' into full-blown impotence (1). Drinking can also cause damage if you're planning to have children. Women who drink over the government’s daily unit guidelines can take longer to become pregnant and can suffer from menstrual and fertility problems.
Recapture your spark
If you're serious about not letting alcohol get between 你 and great sex, then it's best to try cutting down together. Start 由 planning romantic nights that don't involve drinking alcohol at all, 或者 make sure that 你 keep the amount on offer to within the daily unit guidelines.
Practical ways to cut back on booze
Rather than criticising your partner's drinking habits, acknowledge that it could be a good idea for both of 你 to cut down.
Some enthusiastic praise can help steer your partner towards what makes 你 both feel good. Compliments like "You look really slim now you've cut down on the pints," will help your partner feel positive about their choice.
Record your everyday drinking so at the end of the week 你 can see what you've consumed. MyDrinkaware is perfect for this.
If you've got into the habit of drinking wine for dinner, try switching to a non-alcoholic choice instead.
Put away the money 你 would have spent on alcohol. Then, at the end of the 月 use it for something 你 can do together.
If 你 are old enough - what have 你 learned from your experiences of being under the influence and having sex
If your not old enough - what have 你 learnt and how will 你 prevent it in your life?
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Find out why too much alcohol can be a sexual turn-off for 你 both.
Drinking alcohol to excess can make good sex go bad. Dr Abigael San, clinical psychologist and alcohol expert, says this is because alcohol reduces both men's and women's sexual sensitivity.
"In both sexes, sexual response is reduced 由 regular and prolonged drinking," she says.
"In men, alcohol can cause difficulties getting and maintaining an erection - while women may experience reduced lubrication, find it harder to have an orgasm, 或者 have orgasms that are less intense."
Many people mistakenly believe that alcohol is an aphrodisiac. However, over time too much alcohol can actually put a dampener on your sex drive.
Sexual side-effects
Drinking too much over an extended period of time can turn a temporary condition like 'Brewer's Droop' into full-blown impotence (1). Drinking can also cause damage if you're planning to have children. Women who drink over the government’s daily unit guidelines can take longer to become pregnant and can suffer from menstrual and fertility problems.
Recapture your spark
If you're serious about not letting alcohol get between 你 and great sex, then it's best to try cutting down together. Start 由 planning romantic nights that don't involve drinking alcohol at all, 或者 make sure that 你 keep the amount on offer to within the daily unit guidelines.
Practical ways to cut back on booze
Rather than criticising your partner's drinking habits, acknowledge that it could be a good idea for both of 你 to cut down.
Some enthusiastic praise can help steer your partner towards what makes 你 both feel good. Compliments like "You look really slim now you've cut down on the pints," will help your partner feel positive about their choice.
Record your everyday drinking so at the end of the week 你 can see what you've consumed. MyDrinkaware is perfect for this.
If you've got into the habit of drinking wine for dinner, try switching to a non-alcoholic choice instead.
Put away the money 你 would have spent on alcohol. Then, at the end of the 月 use it for something 你 can do together.
If 你 are old enough - what have 你 learned from your experiences of being under the influence and having sex
If your not old enough - what have 你 learnt and how will 你 prevent it in your life?
link
for blind
lovers
Wandering on the streets of my bloodstream
Naked 心 in the darkness of my blind dream
Diving into the wonder that is my daydreaming
The light of 你 will always be alive and kicking
I don’t see you, but I feel 你 even more
I breathe your body yearning for my touch
Right here, with me, right now, in me
Letting our senses take control
From our secret symphony garden
Our hands play our 音乐 on us and
Delve into the memories of this present moment
Only to live the best encounter of our kind
In the heat of the sweet sweaty feeling
Our hands tell us what we need to know
Leaving us undone again, ashes burning
Yearning for more, so much more