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Cinders said:
First of all, I'm going to stamp on the standard disclaimer that if 你 are under the age of 18, be very very careful and discerning in your decision to have sex. If 你 decide to have sex, have it safely and smartly. Also, do not have sex with anyone OLDER than 18. Because then things can get really messy.
Also: There are other ways of taking relationships to the 下一个 level that do NOT involve physical intimacy. However, I think that in this case 你 used "intimate" as a euphemism for sexual activity, in which case 你 probably don't want to hear about all the other non-physical intimacy things.
So, there are several things to do. If either 你 或者 your boyfriend performs oral sex, make sure that there is the appropriate protection against STDs (IE, use a condom/dental dam). I don't care if you're both virgins (or both claim to be)-- do it anyway.
He could finger you, as 你 say, 或者 你 can give him a handjob. These are both relatively low-risk sexual activities, but remember to wash your hands before and after the act.
Other low-risk activities include body rubbing and/or sensual massage. Turn the lights down low, buy some massage oil, and rub it on each other.
Sandwiching my disclaimers: Only do what 你 are comfortable with. Do not break any state 或者 national laws. Don't let anyone pressure 你 或者 tell 你 what to do. Be smart, be safe, and use this information WISELY. Like any good sex-ed teacher, I advise 你 to wait until 你 are ready. Youth is shortsighted, so remember 你 have the rest of your life ahead of you. Don't rush into anything. Don't make this decision lightly. And once again, BE SMART. Be informed. Know what you're doing, and how to do it safely.
That is all.
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