I won't lie my first time was really painful i almost felt like i was getting ripped in half but i was very small framed and my boyfriend penis was very large so i think thats why it was so painful
To answer that 问题 yes it hurts not just the first time but perhaps many times after sex is changing the frame of your body. Forget the pain think about what can happen if your to young the mental part alone can be painful. Be careful think everything through don't assume that this first time person your with will be the one it hardly ever works out to be true so if 你 want to save that part of yourself for the right person and keep your morals intact then wait because 你 can never get that part of yourself back. Care about 你 first all those things will come on time.
when me and my gf first had sex she started crying of either joy 或者 pain so i can assume it was painfull for her but for me it was the best feeling ive ever had