I'm not sure if I'm bisexual 或者 bi-curious and I can't ask anyone yet...help?

First of all, I just want to get the language right. Your friend didn't turn bisexual, she came out bisexual. Sexuality isn't something that 你 turn into, 或者 choose, it's something that's always existed in 你 that 你 might discover 或者 explore, but it's not a sudden change 或者 a choice.

Next, nobody, least of all people on the internet who don't know you, can tell 你 what your sexual orientation is. I know that might be frustrating for you, but keep in mind that we aren't you, we aren't inside your head, and we don't know how 你 are feeling 或者 what you're thinking.

I do want to reassure 你 that it's OK to be bisexual, normal even. Sexual diversity is a natural thing, despite what some people say. It exists in 动物 and humans, and has for millions of years. 你 aren't the first person to be confused 由 this either. I would suggest going to speak to your school counselor, who is bound 由 confidentiality laws to keep your trust if you're concerned about judgment from other people.

If you're not ready to come out bisexual either because you're not sure if 你 are, 或者 you're not sure how people will react, then the short answer is don't. Wait until 你 know yourself better and it feels right to tell others. Focus on your interests in boys if that helps 你 feel better. If 你 meet a girl that 你 find attractive, and if she reciprocates, go for it, see how it feels. Don't hide from your feelings. But it's no one else's business either, if 你 don't want it to be. Heterosexuals never have to "come out" straight. They don't carry a sign with them everywhere that says that they're straight. Coming out is supposed to empower you, help 你 define an identity. If it doesn't, then 你 don't have to do it until it does.

This probably isn't much help. I still urge 你 to discuss with your school counselor, who is trained in these matters.

Dont worry! Im 13 an i have a boyfriend but when i masterbate, i get really turned on 由 lesbian porn. i didnt know if i was bi, but i learned that its normal in teen years. evenyually youll know what 你 are but just relax an wait to find out what 你 really are. :D