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Is having sex with another guy while having a boyfriend considered as cheating?

 Beautiful_Liar posted 一年多以前
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Cinders said:
Different relationships have different definitions of cheating, but, as a general rule, undeniably yes, sex outside of your relationship is, nine times out of ten, considered cheating, and the only time it is not considered cheating is if BOTH partners agree to an open relationship.

I do not know if this 问题 is referring specifically to 你 and your relationships, but if it is, I'm assuming that 你 and your boyfriend are in the typical monogamous relationship, rather than the atypical polygamous relationship. In that case, straying outside that monogamous commitment is definitely cheating, and can hurt the other person. Whether it's a guy sleeping with another girl, a girl sleeping with another guy, a guy sleeping with another guy 或者 a girl sleeping with another girl, sex outside of the relationship is what modern society colloquially calls "cheating." Other names for it include infidelity, straying, adultery, betrayal, and having an affair (though admittedly, the latter one assumes a 秒 relationship which implies having sex out of the relationship at least 更多 than once).

I hope that cleared up any confusion on the subject. Nine times out of ten, there is no wiggle room. It's infidelity. The tenth time out of ten occurs in polygamous 或者 open relationships.
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posted 一年多以前 
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never knew there was so many different terms for cheating ;)
Frizzhead posted 一年多以前
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sesshyswind said:
MOG! I never heard of a person who wouldn't freak out and throw a violent fit just from hearing someone ask a 问题 like this. So yes I believe it is.
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posted 一年多以前 
Monrose said:
It is, but I'm okay with it.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Read my answer
Abilei posted 一年多以前
boolander25 said:
Yeah, I'm pretty sure that when 你 have a bf, 你 shouldn't sleep, make out 或者 显示 any sign of physical affection with anyone but your boyfriend.
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posted 一年多以前 
dustfinger said:
Unless 你 guys are swingers than yes
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posted 一年多以前 
K5-HOWL said:
*looks at Cinder's answer* There's your answer :3
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posted 一年多以前 
iam_emo said:
not really,if u only had sex with this dude and never saw him again,then no.it was just a 1night stand.
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posted 一年多以前 
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I pretty much agree
Abilei posted 一年多以前
BlackAngel369 said:
the fact u have 2 ask is sad enough! u clearly dont care about ur bf enough 2 just keep urself 4 only him.
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posted 一年多以前 
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嘿 你 know nothing about her, 你 have no right to judge nor say what you've said. Just because someone happens to think different from 你 doesn't mean a thing. Grow the fuck up!
Abilei posted 一年多以前
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then y rite below this u agree she is a whore? i can speak my mind, she asked 4 it. u r the whore! u will never understand how 2 爱情 only one person, cuz ur 2 busy being selfish. u will never find 爱情 if ur sleeping 4 one male 2 the nxt. u missy need 2 grow the fuck up! & yes i dont knw her, but i do knw one ulgy side of her & tht is the side she was willing 2 显示 2 me.
BlackAngel369 posted 一年多以前
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Wow, that sure was a mouth full of nonsense. I never agreed to her being a whore. He 说 "it's considered being a whore" I 说 rock on because of an inside joke. 你 know nothing of why I 说 that so your little 评论 about that gas just been ruled out. Then there's all the slamming 你 just did on me, once again 你 don't know me. I don't sleep around, just so 你 know I'm a virgin. So once again, ruled out. Maybe I do need to grow up but 你 need to loosen up. A bf and a gf don't belong to each other, they aren't married. She showed no side of anything FYI. She was asking theoretically not litterally.
Abilei posted 一年多以前
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Learn to spell!
Abilei posted 一年多以前
Abilei said:
Well as 你 already know, I don't think it's cheating if the two people aren't married. I mean when it's just a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship they don't own each other so I think it's perfectly fine.

你 know that in my past I've been known to play a few guys, I see nothing wrong with that. I'm not married to them, I don't own them, they don't own me.
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posted 一年多以前 
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I agree!
Monrose posted 一年多以前
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Thought 你 would
Abilei posted 一年多以前
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你 probably are the kind of person who does not believe in monogamous relationships. This is absolutely OK, so long as you're smart and safe, and that the guys 你 日期 are aware of this. But so-called "exclusive dating" IS a social contract, regardless of marital status, and is assumed 由 the majority of society to be a monogamous relationship. If 你 are only in open relationships, 或者 not seeing any one person at a time, then that's no problem. I just hope your boyfriends are aware of your beliefs and habbits. It's no fun when one person thinks the relationship is one thing, and the other thinks it's something else.
Cinders posted 一年多以前
irena83 said:
Yes,i consider it as cheating.
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posted 一年多以前 
chicky55 said:
noo shit sherlockk!! 你 think its opkkk to fuck some guy and leave 你 man hanging damn your a bitchh i would dumpp your asss!!!!!!!!!!!
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posted 一年多以前 
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For one you're a 婊子, 子 and I don't know how 你 even have friends, maybe 你 shouldn't answer 问题 like that cause it's liable to come and kick 你 in the 屁股 and God willing I hope it does! Bitch!
Beautiful_Liar posted 一年多以前
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jeez
18marras posted 一年多以前
18marras said:
Yes, it is cheating. What if 你 become pregnat and then he finds out? Huh? He will probably break up with 你 if the info leaks. It is considered cheating in my book. Only have sex with one guy.
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