The only thing that's keeping me from loosing my virginity is the fear of getting pregnant, what do 你 think i should do?

Sex can complicate and/or enhance a current relationship, and good sexual chemistry is imperative to a healthy relationship. If 你 want to have sex, and feel like 你 are physically, emotionally and mentally mature to handle it, then the fear of pregnancy shouldn't hold 你 back. There are plenty of good reasons NOT to have sex, but that isn't necessarily one of them.

Condoms are very effective. Though there's still a tiny chance that pregnancy will occur, they also protect 你 from STDs, which is also super important! If you're not satisfied with condoms alone, I suggest seeing your gynecologist for a birth control prescription for a fail safe. Condoms in conjunction with the pill are practically fool proof. Several couples use this method all the time.

That being said, please keep in mind that I am in no position to tell 你 when to have sex. That's a choice 你 ALONE can make, and not anyone else. I'm assuming that 你 feel like you're old enough, and that you're mature enough, and that the ONLY THING STOPPING 你 is fear of pregnancy.

However, maybe 你 should consider if this IS the only thing holding 你 back. We often like to make excuses to ourselves to mask the real reasons we don't want to do things. Maybe there's something else keeping 你 from having sex that has absolutely nothing to do with pregnancy. Just think about it for a while, and make sure you're being honest with yourself. That's my advice, anyway.

if that IS the only reason then i wouldn't worry too much, as long as 你 use protection you'll be fine. condoms are 97% effective and also protect against S.T.I s, however there are plenty of other methods of birth control 你 can use (but I'm sure 你 know that =))

that is a very good reazon to me :)

i would use a 樱桃 flavored condom!(there yummy)
:)but what if it break?
well thats a chance, but a 樱桃 condom never broke on me,cuz i 爱情 them!
im alittle weird. but i do 爱情 them,like this much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!=]

i haven't had sex yet myself to know but if 你 are afraid that when 你 have sex you'll end up pregnant 你 can try condoms and birthcontrol together. Chances are 你 won't end up pregnant if 你 use both

I completely understand your fear of getting pregnant - I myself have a huge phobia but honestly most contraception is at least 98% effective!! my 建议 is if 你 are seriously worried use both the pill and condoms - then ur pretty much 100% protected ( plus if 你 use condoms u won't get an STD)!
However make sure ur also emotionally ready, often this kind of fear is just a sympton of greater underlining doubts about sex.

eat candy!it will get what your thinking
about of your mind!i mean eat lots of candy!

Have your BF wear a condom.

If 你 are at a stage where pregnancy will ruin your life in 更多 ways then one, I strongly suggest 你 wait. Its hard at school, and i know form experience, because if 你 are to fall pregnant it can mess up your schooling, your relationships with family and 老友记 and if 你 are to terminate the pregnancy that can lead to psychological disorders such as depression later on down the track. In saying that, I am currently sexually active andi am in my last 年 of schooling. i told my parents (not easy and not pleasant), they handles it like any parent would but its still hard. I then talked to my mum (dada 或者 gran, 或者 even a close friend 或者 auntie will do) about contraceptives and what not and i decided to go on the Pill (Levlin Every day) i whent to my doctor and got a prescription for it and now i also use condoms aswell just as back up as there are things than can mess up the effects of the pill....if pregnancy really is the only thing keeping 你 from loosing it, your reading, your in a loving and respectful relationship (ask one of your 老友记 if they think thats true, since gus girls seem to be a little deluded when it comes to men) then 由 ll means if 你 are truly ready, talk to 你 mum, 老友记 boyfriend and go on some contraceptive that works well for you...also i know 你 dont know me, but if 你 feel 你 have no one to talk to just send me a message, ill be there for you. i know how hard this stuff can be and i may be able to help....hope that helped