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Tamar20 said:
It's disgusting. Most of them are just careless, uneducated, rebellious, 或者 blinded 由 their "puppy love" It's good that 你 have your head on straight. Maybe 你 can convince your 老友记 abstinence is the way to go until 你 are truly ready for sex. Good job, I'm finally proud of a teenager on here. But then again there are different reasons people lose their virginity at a young age. Because one, they want to fit in, 或者 they don't want to feel like they're less experienced than others, this is 更多 the case with guys than with girls. Two, because they have a low self esteem and will believe what a guy says because they want to believe it, 或者 even if they don't, they just want to feel wanted for even that one moment, this is 更多 the case with girls. Three, their parents don't talk to them about sex, so they don't know how to control themselves, don't know the facts about sex and the dangers. Four, they're horny and can't control themselves, and don't use their brain first. Five, they think they're in love, so they think its okay. Six, some of them truly think they are ready for it. Seven, some of them have grown up too fast so to speak, and have been exposed to things at too young an age, whether its from hanging out with the wrong people, parents being too lenient, 或者 even sexual abuse. Eight, some are wild and crazy, think they're the ish, think they're grown, and think they know everything and are so smart and so mature. Also, some of them have that mentality that everyone is doing it, and nobody likes to get left out of anything. There is a possibility that they can be truly in 爱情 and are really ready to do it, but that's only the case in like 1 in every 25 million lol. Sorry my answer was so long... lol.
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