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Ok..i know some of us 或者 most of us say NO then we feel guilty 4 sayin' it..well that happens..well her some 建议 4 saying No w/felling guilty:

*Are 你 chronically overcommitted? Rushing from one task to another,
with no time for yourself? The key is to have a strong vision of what
你 want to say yes to. Then you'll feel far 更多 confident saying no.

1-Decide which activities 你 truly love. If 你 stay focused on those things, then the 下一个 time 你 are asked to volunteer 或者 get involved in a time-consuming activity, just check in. If the request takes 你 too far from what 你 are already dedicating yourself to, it's easier to say no.
2-Get over the need to be nice. Stop being afraid to disappoint people, and let go of the sense of importance 你 get from being indispensable.
3-Be clear when 你 say no. Ambiguities like "Maybe after the first of the year" 或者 "Let me get back to you" leave the other person thinking you're actually interested, when you're not.
4-Practice saying no in nonthreatening situations, when 你 have little at stake and success is almost assured. Then you'll work up to resigning from the board of directors and stop signing up for committee work. Learn that carving out time for yourself and your family requires no reason and no apology.
5-Say no to requests for money in simple language and give no explanation. Contribute to the causes that excite 你 and complement your values. Then you'll feel confident saying, "My contributions have already been allocated this year."
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POST: I don't want my baby boy to he straight, I want it gay.. If it's straight, I'll put it to adoption straight away!
ME: Don't worry little lady. If your the kids first impression of what a woman is, he'll either be gay 或者 a serial killer..


#2:
POST: I'm bored.. Somebody fuck be.
ME: I would, but 你 might cough on me, and I might catch your stupid.


#3:
POST: How do Christians reproduce, if they think sex is a sin, how do they have babies!?
ME: No, no, your mistaking Christians for temblr feminists., they consider 你 a rapist for "having a penis"


#4:
POST: Who trying to get me pregnant?...
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#1: JASON BRODY:
Starting off as your average immature dare devil. But then Vaas kidnapped him and his brother Grant.. And during their escape Vaas coldly murders poor Grant and Jason is unable to save the poor guy. This being being one of them main reasons Jason tracks down and kills Vaas, though not too many sympathize the death of Vaas, despite how badass he is.
Not only that but Jason becomes a unstoppable force do to the harsh ways of the island destroying both his innocence, and even his sanity.
But Jason uses this, not for bad, but for the sole purpose of rescuing his 老友记 and family...
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