One thing that totally fits under this topic - how others view me and what they think about me. In middle school I went through emo~ish period, when I thought that I don`t fit in, because I don`t act certain ways. (that kinda was true, but only because all of my old classmates were those party-every-weekend kind of people)
But then came high school and I met new, amazing people. And with that the idea of 表演 a certain way went away really fast. And now I`m not afraid of saying what I think, doing what I find to be the best in the situation and expressing my thoughts and opinions.
Another thing that matters much less to me now are grades. In school I thought that if I get a bad grade it`s gonna be the end of the world. But now in uni I`ve realised that only thing that matters is how much I learn and to get that knowledge I came here for. For some unnecessary subjects I`m ok with the lowest grade needed to pass. e.g., I`m studying IT, but for some reason have had subjects as physics, english, chemistry and other ones that I didn`t consider the most important ones. In some it wasn`t hard to get good grade without trying, but some professors were almost going crazy to let students have decent grades :P
There are probably many 更多 things I could think of, but it`s late and my brain isn`t thinking anymore.
Fighting with people over fictional characters on the internet. Like I'll 辩论 every now and again but it usually doesn't escalate anymore. In general I've learned to mostly ignore people the say pointless rude things.
Other people's opinions IRL. I've learned to not give two shits. I've never been too bothered 由 people's opinions of my appearance but somehow it matters even less now lmao. I'm gonna do what I do apologetically.
Honestly? Most things. Obviously I still have things that matter to me but most things are just kind of meh. Life is short so I don't really see the point in bothering with things that aren't in some part valuable to my personhood. Which is a lot of things.
Idk. There's alot of things tbh. I simply do not give a shit in the first place often. So it's not something I can readily point out so absolutely.
I am not having pointless internet debates and getting upset over them as much. It is literally pointless sometimes and no need to waste hours of your time to do it. Many times I just ignore after I say some snappy rebuttal and then leave I normally argue with people as a form of amusement and when I am bored but I don't get upset with people as much for being stupid. Granted this wasn't an extremely high probability to happen in the first place. I've already come to the conclusion that alot of people are stupid and nothing will fix that in many scenarios.
I am understanding 更多 and 更多 not to keep 老友记 that require 你 to not step on eggshells often. I can understand if 说 subject really hits 首页 but for some reason I failed to realize how many 老友记 I stepped on eggshells often with and quite frankly it's refreshing not to deal with them anymore.
People 你 have to step on eggshells all the time with are quite frankly never worth being 老友记 with. There might be exceptions as nothing is absolute but there has to be some understanding for a friendship blossom. Oversensitive vs Overlogical 或者 not. There needs to be some common ground/understanding.
I'm not sure, I guess fights. I get so annoyed when people fight, I don't care to do it 或者 watch it. Not that I cared about in the past. I never wanted to be involved in fights 或者 arguments but I had with my family as a teenager. I mostly walk away from it and since I don't live with my sister anymore as she is an adult and lives with her boyfriend, I don't fight with her period. Why fight 或者 have heated argmuents with anyone? it doesn't solve anything, it just makes everyone miserable.
Quite a few things, I would say. Personally, I could mention one of them being the tendency on trying to constantly prove myself to others. I believe that the 更多 你 grow, you'll realize that 你 don't have to convince anyone. Only yourself, tbh. Simply feeling content with who 你 are and the progress 你 have made in your Life. In overall, simply not caring about the critism of others in your Life. 你 live your very own one. Make sure 你 lead it the way 你 want. Life is too short for holding back and staying with regrets. Just stay true to yourself. I would really like to point quite a few other things on the matter as well but for some reason, I really have a hard time putting this into words right now. I believe my point can be understood though !!!!
not only me, but nearly everyone in my class , we dont care if a teacher scolds us...infact we try not to laugh if he/she scolds us..... its good till they keep their hand on our internal marks! :P but whereas i felt bad for days when a teacher scolded me during my highschool days and before that!
what people think about me...i still worry about that but not as much as i did when i was small
Expectations reinforced 由 Society and my family (fuck them both, minus the few who do appreciate me). Getting (and trying to keep) your job. There will be other jobs, but you'll only get one life. Money. It's necessary, yes, but not why we exist. The opinions of others. I'm guilty of having other people's words run throughout my mind, but I know I shouldn't give a shit. They don't understand me, and it's a about tims I accept that they never will. Arguments. It's never worth stressing over, just fuck that shit and live your life. Let them dwell in their negativity and let yourself be free.