(This is the final part to my first question)
biological father and proceeds to treat me as if I'm his daughter, therefore, he tells me what to do so often that I can't even 熊 to be in his presence anymore without him bossing me around. My sister and I often do the dishes, and there have been several cases where we accidentally forget a couple dishes. Like maybe a cup 或者 two 或者 three that happened to be sitting on the counter. When we try to explain to him that we weren't paying attention, he proceeds to spout stuff about how my sister and I are blind, and that we can't see a few cups then we need glasses. As if glasses would actually help first of all. Second, I have told him a simple, "you didn't do these," would have sufficed instead of a snarky response like "you're blind." And I've even called him rude and mean for it. He argues back 由 saying he's not mean. 秒 later he'll call us blind again. He's a very rude person.
(8) The last thing that sets me off the most is how he puts down my biological father. He has stopped ever since I told him to stop several years ago, but I'll sometimes catch my stepdad speaking some kind of nonsense about how my father is not a good dad, then he'll proceed to judge him like he does with everything else. I already know that my stepdad doesn't think very highly of my biological father. But that doesn't mean he has to talk so lowly about him. And every time he does I just want to rip his lips off his face. There have even been times when my mom and my stepdad got into arguments. Like every normal relationship. But some of the insulting things my stepdad has yelled at my mom for in the heat of the argument, I cannot forgive him for. He absolutely refuses to apologize for anything.
- Ok, sorry for the long letter. Are these good enough reasons for my hatred towards my stepfather? My mother loves him and doesn't seem like they'll be splitting up anytime soon. I only put up with him because she's happy. Am I just too sensitive? Any feedback is appreciated! And thanks so