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would 你 ever go out with someone who cut ?

 massivetr011 posted 一年多以前
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
Yes, of course. Just because they have struggled, and felt the need to harm themselves, doesn't make them any less worthy of love/affection. If anything, they may need it more. I wouldn't only go out with them, I'd do everything I could to try and help them, and just be there for them. Because I know what it's like to self harm, and how much 你 struggle, and how much 你 fall down, and I know how hard it is to not have someone to pick 你 back up. There is no doubt in my mind, that I would 日期 someone who self harmed.
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They are not less worthy no, but like many other issues, 你 will have to deal with the pain it may cause "you" - my experience. i'll be 老友记 with people but my dating criteria is different.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted 一年多以前
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^The thing is, I have no problems with the pain it causes, I'm rather used to it. And I'd honestly be happier being with someone who self harms, then being friend
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
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s with someone who does
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
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Agreed with your answer.
victoria7011 posted 一年多以前
Sinna_Hime_chan said:
No.

I have nothing against people themselves, just "the act" and I am not saying I am better-than, I understand cutting and how it begins and why it remains but I found out my ex was 情绪硬核 and cut and I have enough to deal with in my life - I do not mind someone with similar backgrounds/feelings 或者 similar issues to my own as long as we can co-exist and it be in a semi-postive way that is okay, but I do not want emotional baggage and I do not want to deal with someone else's. I would rather us be willing to work on and heal. To me, if 你 are cutting, 你 have a way to go and I am not there. I worked hard and for years to get over my divorce, (not a cutter-but that left a scar, I have had enough "emotional" scars to heal from), a lifetime to deal with messed up family stuff, and self-harm I did enough of in other ways in the past so it is not what I want to see someone do to themselves! Not at all! It isn't cool, I don't think it is interesting 或者 romantic, no 更多 than any other messed up coping skill. Like I said, I have enough in my life that I deal with 或者 have and things not cool. I want to 日期 更多 emotionally fit and healthy as possible who is as relationship/romantically capable as possible. No one is perfect, but I do want progress 或者 a fit that is right for me 或者 raise me.

It scars the body & hurts those who care
Not suicidal people either, if I know not that I choose-No.
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 No. I have nothing against people themselves, just "the act" and I am not saying I am better-than, I understand cutting and how it begins and why it remains but I found out my ex was 情绪硬核 and cut and I have enough to deal with in my life - I do not mind someone with similar backgrounds/feelings 或者 similar issues to my own as long as we can co-exist and it be in a semi-postive way that is okay, but I do not want emotional baggage and I do not want to deal with someone else's. I would rather us be willing to work on and heal. To me, if 你 are cutting, 你 have a way to go and I am not there. I worked hard and for years to get over my divorce, (not a cutter-but that left a scar, I have had enough "emotional" scars to heal from), a lifetime to deal with messed up family stuff, and self-harm I did enough of in other ways in the past so it is not what I want to see someone do to themselves! Not at all! It isn't cool, I don't think it is interesting 或者 romantic, no 更多 than any other messed up coping skill. Like I said, I have enough in my life that I deal with 或者 have and things not cool. I want to 日期 更多 emotionally fit and healthy as possible who is as relationship/romantically capable as possible. No one is perfect, but I do want progress 或者 a fit that is right for me 或者 raise me. [b]It scars the body & hurts those who care[/b] Not suicidal people either, if I know not that I choose-No.
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I have to agree with everything 你 说 baby and best answer
DarkCruz360 posted 一年多以前
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The 图片 look gruesome
rileyferguson posted 一年多以前
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@riley, I agree, there should have been a trigger warning
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
sarabeara said:
Not knowingly. I need emotional stability in a relationship.
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yes, agreed, same here- best answer.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted 一年多以前
summer2987 said:
sure , i guess , it really depends on their personality and who they are .
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LaDispute said:
Well I would never be put off 由 someone just because they have scars, especially since I've got some, but I mean as always it depends. I'm not a huge 粉丝 of the shallow cut-for-attention kind of person and all that, the kind who cuts just to get noticed~

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I think the cut-for-attention people have just as many problems as people who cut from depression and stuff, though. After all, if you're physically harming yourself, just to be noticed, then 你 might have a serious depressive/mental disorder yourself.
Hamuko posted 一年多以前
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Either that, 或者 they're experiencing major neglect.
Hamuko posted 一年多以前
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I agree with what 你 说 about the ones who do it for attention, and I agree with Hamuko as well. Of course the ones who cut just for attention have problems too, but I definitely see something shallow and self-centered about that.
CandyforniaGurl posted 一年多以前
Hamuko said:
I'm not sure. I myself am not very stable a person, and in a relationship, I think I'm the one that needs support and all that... I don't think I'd be able to always be there to help someone who does that, because I need help myself. I need someone strong to depend on. If I really loved the person, then sure... I'd try to help them the best I can, and make it work somehow. But I think if someone cuts, we'd most likely just be friends, and I'd try to help them to the best of my ability, as a friend. Uhh... that sounds less mean in my head than it does here.
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It doesn't sound mean, it sounds like 你 know yourself. 你 sound loving and caring and know what would make 你 feel 更多 secure and what 你 feel capable of. Of course we do the best we can with anything. Many relationships do not work out, but it is good to know ourselves anyway.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted 一年多以前
zutaradragon said:
well considering i'm sorda surprised i don't....yeah....
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 well considering i'm sorda surprised i don't....yeah....
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SeeUV3 said:
Yes i have before i am also a cutter so :/
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egyptprincess7 said:
Yeah,I would. They deserve 爱情 too,I would try to help the person in any way I can.
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zanesaaomgfan said:
Yeah.
你 just have to be my type and have a clean record.
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Lovehinagurl44 said:
I don't think so
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boytoy_84 said:
你 mean someone who's circumcised? because I don't understand your question.
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 你 mean someone who's circumcised? because I don't understand your question.
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No, self-harm. xDD
LaDispute posted 一年多以前
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oh gee
Hamuko posted 一年多以前
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self-mutilation, slicing on arm 或者 places 你 can't see, whatever different types of pain that drives the bad and hurt and numbs them.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted 一年多以前
cutiepie0310 said:
Maybe. I already know a friend who told me two weeks 以前 that she was cutting. It doesn't bother me too much, but I still worry.
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monkeyrockla said:
Yeah, why not?
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herpinaderpson said:
Yes.
I like giving 建议 to depressed people. If my 日期 did self-harm, I would find a way to talk to him about it.
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~People who self harm don't always want to talk about their self harm though~
LaDispute posted 一年多以前
missracoon said:
As long as I liked the guy enough to help him with it, I would.
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micheal7777 said:
idk im so depressed right now i cant think straight

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Otaku_Girl4890 said:
I don't think I could, I don't like the idea of dating someone with the same problems as me, it sounds sad. I'm a very quiet shy person, I couldn't talk about this stuff with most people in person, and people who do self harm tend to talk about it alot, and that would be too depressing for me.
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polarwagon15 said:
No fucking way!

I hate cut, especially whenever I'm trying to copy the text I accidentally click cut and see before my eyes half of my work go the waste.

Fuck cut.
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bubblegum_kiss said:
Yes but i would try to convince them to stop and do everything i could to try to help them and if they didnt stop after going out with me awhile i would probably have to break up with them because even if i liked them as a person the thought of cutting really disgusts me.
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MarineHolocaust said:
yeah. yea h you're a fucking douche if 你 wouldn't tbh i mean. Unless you're emotionally incapable of dealing with that
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