have u had people that became your 老友记 and then didnt like how 随意 u are?

I hate people, so no because I dont have any decent friends.

Nope.

To me, they aren't considered true friends. 老友记 need to accept every nook and cranny of you, but can also give 你 advice. If they are trying to tell 你 to tone it down a bit with your randomness, it's your choice to either listen 或者 not.

I can easily figure someone's personality 由 just being around them for a while, and since being around isn't considered as friendship, no.