Extremely. I prefer constructive criticism. Straight up complements feel superficial and almost petty to me, and meaningless. And I never really know quite how to react to them.
This is a true story. One day, I was walking down the street, and this 随意 hippie dude walked up to me and said, "Dude, 你 have, like, righteous elbows!" then smiled like a maniac and walked off. I was stunned.
posted 一年多以前
你 must have awesome elbows if a hippie 说 that 哈哈 XD
well...only if its someone i dont know, but if its 老友记 或者 family i feel happy...like my mom and i were walking in town and there was a man in a suit and he 说 my mom was pretty ._. and then he 说 i was cute. My mom looks 15 years younger then she is naturally. So it was seriously awkward when my mom 说 she was married 哈哈 its NOT cool to give compliments to people 你 dont know, so dont do it guys...for the 爱情 of god
Yes. It especially freaks me out when my enemy compliments me on my 表演 skills. 或者 when my family compliments me on my art. 或者 when other people say they like my 衬衫 或者 something. But also, it kind of annoys me when people critisize me... Best just for other people not to say anything, I guess.
If someone tries to give me money though, I keep trying to get out of it...like it is some weird killing offense to accept it.
Also if someone compliments a drawing I made, I immediately attribute it to them trying to make me feel good. I try to avoid compliments about that because it makes me feel awkward.
Yes. I don't know how to respond to them. Except for saying, "Oh, thanks." But it always turns awkward 'cuz it seems that person that complimented me was expecting a conversation to start with that. And especially on my drawings. I suck. A lot. But I'm getting better... I think.
It really depends. I can take compliments well but I don't like it when it's flattery and they are trying to make me feel good. It hurts my ego badly. It's like "You need flattery to cope with something" 或者 the are trying to get something from me. I am suspicious like that.
And if they compliment me on something awkward like I dunno my ass. I would feel really uncomfortable even if a girl 说 it. Considering I don't see my 屁股 like that.
And no because I like compliments but I like them when they are truthfully. I would respect 你 so much if 你 gave it to me straight about something I did instead of making me feel better with superficial comments. Help me feel better but don't use flattery with me to obtain that.
Not really. I usually say thanks, unless it's clearly ridiculous, as when I'm out with my daughter, and someone says "Sisters?" Ha ha ha. I wish I looked that good. I laugh that off, while l'il sis cringes.
It depends what kind of complement it is. If its like your hair looks pretty im okay with that until they start touching my hair and asking how i did it. 或者 where i get my clothes that isnt awkward. But complements from a dude just creeps me out.....because i know exactly what they are doing and what they are thinking -__-
