What does it mean to be in control...when 你 have no control?

Actually 你 do have control over your emotions. 你 can be two things in a difficult situation: an owner and a victim... If 你 are an owner 你 will think logically (for example can it be fixed? if so dont worry, can it not be fixed? then why be sad?)and does not let the emotions get him, like when 你 are being irritated 由 somebody it is to have the power not to get angry and control your emotions. That person is an owner and can control his emotions. A victim is the opposite. When 你 try to be an owner 你 actually take control of your self and your feeling and emotions

being in control means really that 你 can handle your emotions according to the situation, and don't randomly lash out at people 或者 things. .3.