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I need some advice......

Well one of my 老友记 had this guy over recently who is a 年 older than her and he asked her to have *** with him and he touched her in places... so me and my 老友记 tell her she probly shouldn't hang out with him anymore because she still wants to be his friend.. and in the bible it says 老友记 are supposed to help other 老友记 but she won't listen to us.. soo wht should ii do?!?!
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does your friend want to be in a realtionship with this guy?
bubblegum_kiss posted 一年多以前
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well the thing is he already has a girlfriend........
xCottonCandyx posted 一年多以前
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she is 12!!!!!!
xCottonCandyx posted 一年多以前
 xCottonCandyx posted 一年多以前
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hetaliaitaly said:
well yes sometimes it is good to listen to your 老友记 but 你 cant make her change her mind just wait till she figures it out herself
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posted 一年多以前 
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thx i guess she'll learn from her bad choices.
xCottonCandyx posted 一年多以前
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yep
hetaliaitaly posted 一年多以前
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Then again, she should be watchfull. What if this guy tries to rape her 或者 bullies her into it?
JaseKS posted 一年多以前
ripper124 said:
If she don't then leave it alone in let her suffer the pain. (but thats just me)
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thx 4 the 建议
xCottonCandyx posted 一年多以前
JaseKS said:
I'm sorry, but did 你 seriously beep out the word sex?


Okay, down to business.

This is a little thing I like to call an "Abusive Relationship". Touching her in her... wherever he touched her, is considered sexual assault. She won't listen to 你 because the victims in abusive relationships typically don't realize they're being abused. They narrow down abuse to hitting, when emotional abuse such as that is equally as dangerous.
He may have been a bit... ahem... exited that 日 and asked. If this is true, and he get's the picture (which is that your friend does not want to sleep with him) and he leaves the subject alone, than it was probably just a casual question. If he continues to touch her private areas then 你 should tell an adult immedeatly. Even if it's embarrassing and your friend will be angry, TELL AN ADULT. Like a teacher 或者 counsler. They will know what to do and hopefully be able to convince her the relationship between your friend and the man is a dangerous one. But if it was just a one-time thing, then I suggest 你 leave it alone, but be on high alert.

WHATEVER 你 DO DON'T ALLOW HER TO LEARN FROM HER MISTAKES.

Although it is nessecary to do so at times, allowing someone to sexually assault your friend is a bad idea. What if he rapes her? Rape can be a very traumatic expirience, and if that happens, then I can guarentee your friend will never be the same again.
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bubblegum_kiss said:
i think what 你 should do depends on whether your friend wants to be in a relationship with this guy. if she just wants to be his friend then maybe 你 should try to talk to her again. if shes serious about him then just leave their relationship alone.
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posted 一年多以前 
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he already has a girlfriend so im scareed she'll get hurt
xCottonCandyx posted 一年多以前
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oh. in that case if she doesnt listen to 你 i would probably leave it alone. if she ends up getting her feelings hurt 或者 whatever 你 should be there for her though, just i wouldnt try to butinto her relationships
bubblegum_kiss posted 一年多以前
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But what if it's 更多 than her feelings that get hurt? What if he sexually abuses her?
JaseKS posted 一年多以前
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yea tht was wht i was getting at
xCottonCandyx posted 一年多以前
Ale1152 said:
Just let her do what she wants, you're not in control of her life. If she wants ruin her life, then let her ruin it. It will be her fault for making mistakes in her life.
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posted 一年多以前 
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since when is having sex with one guy gonna ruin your entire life?
bubblegum_kiss posted 一年多以前
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i am letting her do wht she wants but when i give her 建议 she ignores me
xCottonCandyx posted 一年多以前
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she is 12!!!
xCottonCandyx posted 一年多以前
NinaDobrev13 said:
Well if 你 asked her and she still wants to see him, just have faith she wont be stupid and get pregnant!!

Just give her support, and dont leave her!!
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posted 一年多以前 
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yess but he could rape her 或者 do stuff even worse to her
xCottonCandyx posted 一年多以前
bfflvvh said:
whoa..... wut i wuld do iz confront him with a friend(prefable a male XD)nd be like dont be messin with mii 首页 gurl dude.nd tell ur friend if he tries to rape her... pleZ xcuse madeas language
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whoa..... wut i wuld do iz confront him with a friend(prefable a male XD)nd be like dont be messin with mii 首页 gurl dude.nd tell ur friend if he tries to rape her... pleZ xcuse madeas language
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