Has anyone else ever felt this way...? :/

I've seen situations like this before, and I think that it's normal. It's also understandable that 你 find growing up to be unfavorable; I don't want to grow up either. There's a friend of mine who is in the same situation, and wants to have a child of her own. A lot of us don't believe it's the right decision, but if she really wants to have a son 或者 daughter already, that's her choice.

I'm not going to overstep boundaries here and say the whole "OMG you're too young!" crap, like some people I've seen start. I do encourage 你 to continue on with your plan of talking to your mother and sister, and I hope that 你 can get the 答案 that 你 need from them. I can only tell 你 so much.

I felt like that for only about a week when I was I think 14.... It's completely normal, and knowing 你 I'm gonna guess it's just a phase and you'll get over it soon, so if I were 你 I wouldn't worry. I'd still talk to mom about it, though....

yup :) thats me... im 13 too

I've felt like that before, yes. I think it's perfectly fine to feel like that.

i'm NEVER getting married, i prefer to be independent...don't care about conservative family values...a kid someday would be ok, but i don't have to get married for that...and noo, i don't want to grow up...i'd 爱情 to be a teenager forever...

*hyena cackle*

Yes I know the feeling. I felt that way myself when I was..

..11..Or even 9. Bah.

Now, kids get under my skin faster than bangin' Bacteria. They're loud, obnoxious and terribly spoiled; sure, they're cute in the beginning, but after a while 你 get nothing from them but powerful Migraines and a messy home.

Hell, your feet might also become a useful device for finding Legos in the dark. >B|

And GOD; don't get me started about all the money you'll have to spend on those pesky brats!

I'm telling you, I'm not sure if I'll ever be ready to start my own family. Not only do I hate kids, I'm also very hostile and hateful when it comes to men (the REAL kind of men). Yeah yeah of course I'll have a Boyfriend 或者 two (one 日 in the future..), but on the long run I prefer to fly solo and live as a happy (probably also a virgin forever) Individual.

No kids (and while we're at it, no childbirth pain), no unnecessary relationship drama; just me, my mental issues, my 狗 and my imaginary boyfriends.

I think that's normal.

yes. i'm 15 i feel like dat.

Trust me, you're not alone. I've been planing it out since I was littie and I keep adding to it. I want to get married, be an animator and a director. We're going to live on a farm with cows, pigs, and of course horses. We'll have three beagles named Lock, Shock, and Barrel. Two 猫 named Jack and Sally. We'll even grow some of our own food, like carrots and potatos. And finally we'll have 5 kids. Three boys: Daniel, Allen, and Envy. Two girls: Winry and Emily. I can't wait to have my own family and really start my life.

Yeah, I think 13 is a very normal age to feel that. I don't think 你 need to "consult" anyone. It's not a bad way to feel; it's perfectly logical.

I felt the same exact way a 年 ago. I wanted to have a family and stuff, but I didn't want to deal with the other prospects of growing up. But recently all that changed and I don't even want to get married until I'm in my late 20's at least, and I don't ever want kids. Maybe a son. So I can't really help 你 with your problem, but I don't really see a problem there.

i kind of felt that way when i was younger, i like planned out my future (i never wanted to get married back then tho) but now i dont really care, whatever happens, happens.

I could give 你 this long lecture on what I learned from a paper I did on Sigmund Freud who had some theories about this, but I'll just say it's normal.