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Okay so I'm 15 years old and have a major crush on one of the guys I've known since I was 10. We are really great 老友记 but I don't know f he feels the same way back. I'm not looking for a serious relationship 或者 anything but I'm debating about weather 或者 not I should ask him out. Alot of my 老友记 have told me that I should wait for him to ask me out because he is the guy but I think that maybe that's to old fashioned and sexist. On the other hand I'm afraid that if I do ask and he doesn't feel the same way it could wreck a truly amazing friendship. I've had a crush on him since we were 12 and I just can't contain it all inside of me any 更多 but I don't know if it's worth risking our friendship. Please help me 你 guys! I feel like I've turned everywhere else with no success. If 你 give me ligitamet 建议 I will give 你 props! :) lol
 BookNerd17 posted 一年多以前
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Me_Iz_Here said:
(Thinks about the amazingly similar situation I'm in)

Tell him 你 like him first. If he's okay with it, then ask him out. It shouldn't ruin your friendship if he's a really good friend. Just do whatever 你 think 你 should do.
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posted 一年多以前 
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A lot better than my very long answer... lol.
Sandfire_Paiger posted 一年多以前
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Thnx, I think that's probably what I should do and I think I know that somewhere inside of me but it still is hard to do.
BookNerd17 posted 一年多以前
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Good luck with your situation!
BookNerd17 posted 一年多以前
jayem801 said:
If uu really like himm... like a lot, well i think uu should just come clean ,just tell him how uu feel , .... tell him that if uu guys can be 更多 then 老友记 beacause if uu just keep it all inside it's going to kill uu 更多 trust mee' i was in this problem too... if he doseen't, at least uu had the guts to tell him... && be pround of yurr self (: if he dosen't feel the same way ?... Then just be 老友记 but don't let that get in the way... There lots of guys out there "a lot" maybe there sum one like him but a little better... and maybe he is just waiting on a perfect girl like 你 <3
i hoped i kinda helped c:
♥- Kamie
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posted 一年多以前 
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It did sort of! It was very motivational:)
BookNerd17 posted 一年多以前
Sandfire_Paiger said:
Well, I'm not very experienced with boys, considering I'm 12.

You've known him for five years. Well, its just me but, I think 你 would probably know him well enough to at least predict his reaction. Take that into account. And if it seems like it would go well, ask him out. Who cares if its 'traditional' for a guy to ask out the girl? And if 你 have no idea how he'll react, then I would still think about it carfully and most likely ask him out. If he says no, and things are awkward, just do things like 你 regularly do, and try and get things back to normal. Thats the best 建议 I can give! Hope it works out well!


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posted 一年多以前 
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Being as like 你 说 你 don't have a ton of experience with boys, that was a very good answer :) it's just hard because the way he is he is never really open about any type of serious emotion and I get nervous sometimes talking with him about it.
BookNerd17 posted 一年多以前
creepyboy7 said:
follow your dear heart! that is the dearest 建议 i can give 你 at this dear moment!
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posted 一年多以前 
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Lol, thnx
BookNerd17 posted 一年多以前
Animetama said:
If 你 don't wanna ask him out, then look for signs that tell 你 whether 或者 not he likes 你 或者 not. Like if he talks to 你 alot 或者 leans foward whenever 你 guys talk. Im sure it'll all work out in the end. Try flirting yourself too, if he responds, then I'm sure he likes 你 on some level.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thnx :) but I'm a terrible flirt! 哈哈
BookNerd17 posted 一年多以前
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lolz then practice >:P however he flirts with 你 (if he does) flirt the same way!
Animetama posted 一年多以前
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