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Why do people between the ages of 10-15 want to have a relationship as in boyfriend/girlfriend i dont think it will last so i dont see a point


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 Nobomerelio posted 一年多以前
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sarabeara said:
It doesn't matter whether the relationship lasts 或者 not, what matters is whether they're having fun with the person and if they're happy. It's the feeling of having someone there. The feeling of having someone to hang out with on Friday night so 你 won't be lonely. I do find it ridiculous when 14 年 olds are like "But I 爱情 him!" That's all a bunch of bullsh*t. (But who knows, the relationship COULD develop into 爱情 with age maturity).

Plus, there's the whole added thing of peer pressure. Like if 你 don't have a bf/gf then you're not cool. But, there's also the hormone factor. When you're 13 and 你 see a guy, 你 think "ooh he's cute. I so wanna 日期 him so I can 吻乐队(Kiss) him!" A 13 年 old isn't thinking practically like "you know what, this isn't gonna last", they're thinking "he's really hot. I want him!" Added with that is the whole property thing (since 你 don't want anyone else to have the guy that 你 like).

But young relationships shouldn't be taken for granted. All the feelings are real. The relationships are practice for 更多 mature relationships as the people get older. So I think it's unfair to say that young relationships are pointless. They're not. My friend Megan met this guy Jeremy in 6th grade and they've been dating since 6th grade and are now both going into 12th 下一个 年 (This is actually a true story). So young relationships can develop into something more. True, Jeremy and Megan probably won't end up getting married 或者 anything, but they make each other 更多 happy than any other pair I've ever seen, so it's absolutely shallow to say that teen relationship are pointless (I mean 13 and older, 10-12 年 old relationships are just stupid). It's a total misnomer.
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beeibe said:
people want to have fun, and dating is cool =)
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topez99 said:
Im only 9 I have like a "FRIEND" that might tun into a couple!
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sanman7 said:
burn...in...hell... 你 have no clue what a relationship is I don't do pick ups either im proudly serving in the U.S. army sure it sounds fake but the first thing they teach 你 is not to fall for pickups!
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posted 一年多以前 
meliblack said:
Yeah most of these relationships wont last long but it's only for fun they probably just want to have fun however I kind of think it is too early for them to have serious relationships (if 你 know what i mean) but as long as its a clean relationship why not!
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