I've 迷失 my best friend.

well I can't really help 你 that much execpt telling 你 2 things.
1) everyone gets kicked out of the group eventualy. Just take it as a time to meet new people. most likly they will be your 老友记 again after a 月 at most.

2)It is prooven that the "loners" 或者 "misfits" in a school do better in their adult years then populars. So this may be good for your future.

sorry that that is all I can tell you. Hope it helps! :D

p.s. with the boyfriend thing I got no clue. just follow your heart. If 你 do that you'll never be wrong.

First off, I know what 你 are going through- friendship can be 心 breaking at times and it's hard to trust 老友记 when they don't know everything about 你 或者 unless they trust 你 with everything 你 tell them. The best thing to do about your old 老友记 或者 this friend is to just stay away from them and start meeting new people. I know meeting new people and making new 老友记 is tough but eventually 你 feel a lot better. As for your dating situatuions, that is for 你 to decide- if this other guy your dating currently is looking at other girls, then it's best to tell him through and tell him that it can't work out that well (even though it will be diffcult and 心 breaking to explain it all). This other guy 你 should try to get to knowing him, but be carefull- 你 never know what can happen next.

well, this is only MY opinion but i think i, if i were u, that maybe if u still miss both of ur old 老友记 maybe u can talk 2 them and work thigs out with them. u can also ask out ur crush, i mean u have nothing 2 loose if he says no so wat 移动 but if he says yes then go for it. and about the other guy that u think he likes u and u KINDA like him back well, u can try being 老友记 with him.

1) If she was ever a true friend, she wouldn't just suddenly drop you. My 'friend' did that once. She just decided that she didn't like me anymore, then the 下一个 日 decided that nothing had ever happened. I confronted her, and she admitted that it was all just stupid, and could we just forget it. I like her I guess, we have a laugh together, but I know that she's not the sort of friend that I could trust. We get on, she's fun to hang out with, but that's all our friendship is. It doesn't get to the point when I feel that I could text her in the middle of the night and hear that she still wants to talk to me. I don't know, but I kind of get the feeling that that's what the friendship is between 你 and your best friend was. Maybe, maybe not, I'm not you. But just 熊 in mind that a true friend will stick 由 你 no matter what, and maybe 你 should think about who your best 老友记 really are.
Friendship is hard. But give things a bit longer and see how things progress. 你 may find that these other 老友记 will end up being way 更多 trustworthy than your ex-friend ever was. It takes a while to feel like you're officially part of a group, but that's only natural. You'll get to know them, and they'll get to know you; and you'll possibly find that they're kind of 老友记 that 你 always wanted, 你 just didn't realize it till it came. In time things will work out, really. Friendship groups are always changing, everywhere, and sometimes it's for the best. Good luck.

2) I can't really give 你 much 建议 on this one, just follow your heart.

Don't worry.

A best "friend" told me she didn't want to be 老友记 with me anymore, also.
Surprisingly, I felt no sense of loss 或者 hurt, because I realized that she couldn't be a true friend if she wanted to stop being friends. You'll find someone out there who understands and likes 你 as a person :)

About your crush.
"Crush" is the key word here. Depending on how old 你 are, it's highly doubtful that the dating thing will last through college 或者 even high school. Besides, the crush will wear off way before that, trust me.
I would suggest asking the other guy out. Your crush will see that you've (possibly) moved on, and might let go of the other girl and go to you. If he doesn't, he ain't worth it, sweetheart.
Good luck,
--Rapunzel

Oh hun you're in a bad situ.. </3 I was in one like that a while 以前 so i get how confused and worried 你 feel. Its a hard situation cos of the bff thing then the crush thing. I'll start with the bff thing- I have two 'best friends' -_- that sometimes go off with eachother and leave me out too, and the only other half 老友记 i have i feel awkward with too.
firstly, 你 should tell your problems to your mom, she's probably been there herself. 你 should also talk to your so called best 老友记 and find out why they 说 that to you.. altho i think i already know- most girls don't get on in friendships of 3, so 2 of them group together so both of them are safe, and leave out the third. personally i find that pathetic, but thats what most girls are like. 你 should tell them that 你 have other worries too and would appreciate their support, and offer your if ever they have any problems too. let them know 你 value their friendship, but don't be a doormat. they don't sound like good 老友记 to me, so if the talk is unsuccessful, then just use them like they used you. just use them to talk to in school so 你 dont have to hang out with awkward people. -If 你 dont want to do that and still value their friendship, then try talking to your favourite female teacher about it. there's normally always one nice teacher that likes 你 and understands everything. 你 should get that sorted out, but not so that the other 2 girls get told off, because that will make them dislike 你 more.


About the boy situation, 你 should definitely look into that. first to say, i'm not sure about either of those two boys 你 mention. i am disappointed for 你 that the boy 你 like doesnt SEEM to like you, because i've been there and its the worst gutting feeling of all. especially when he likes someone else instead, that really kills. There are a few options of what 你 can do about him. they will depend on what your frame of mind is like. If 你 are feeling strong, ready for a risk and not ready to let your problems overtake you, then wait until 你 are on your own with him and hint that 你 like him. then, drop into a conversation the 问题 of if there happens to anyone he likes. he probably wouldn't say 'yeah, you.' even if he did like you, so be prepared for that. boys just arent like that unfortuantely for us :(
but before 你 talk to him, do your homework 由 finding out as much information as 你 can. get talking to his 老友记 and yours, but don't make it too obvious 你 like him.. this could have disastrous effect on 你 if it all goes wrong and it turns out ha has no feelings for 你 whatsoever. (i think he probably has a little bit, cos otherwise 你 wouldnt have liked him in the first place.)
also, get talking to the girl he supposedly likes and find out if its true and if she likes him too. again, don't be obvious.

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