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Am I too young to get married?

I'm getting married in December, and I turned 18 on May 27th. My boyfriend is 18, too. One of his best 老友记 and 2 of my bffs 说 that we were too young. Would 你 agree?
 kakalover posted 一年多以前
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
18 is an acceptable and legal age to get married, yes.

But your 老友记 are just worried that you're making a wrong move.
In some countries women get married at very young ages, but here where I am in England, most people leave it till later on.
Sometimes it's not a wise decision to get married so early. 你 and your partner may not know eachother as well as 你 think 你 do, depending on how long you've been together. But as far as I'm concerned, as long as you've both thought this through properly, you've taken into account your parents/guardians' opinions, and are certain that it's what 你 want, then I'm sure there's no problem. But 你 must feel ready. 你 don't want to grow up too quickly and regret it.

But if you're both mature about this and certain, then I'm happy for you. :)


由 the way, how long have 你 known him?

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posted 一年多以前 
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I always 爱情 how 你 answer with the long, yet informative little speech :D I agree :)
rapunzeleah123 posted 一年多以前
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Hehe, I can't seem to help it. :) Thanks!
EmzLovesCheryl posted 一年多以前
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@kakalover, it all depends really on how 你 feel. you're obvously uncertain, right? otherwise 你 wouldn't be asking this question. what's the rush? 你 have years to go of 你 being happily together without the stress of being married. And if it's not what 你 want, then don't be shy to call the wedding off, if he loves 你 he'll understand. i'm not going to tell 你 what 你 should do, because it's up to 你 to decide. Listen to the voice deep inside your heart. Does it think you're ready? 5 months is a short time. Go with what 你 want, not what 你 think 你 should do.
EmzLovesCheryl posted 一年多以前
Schnusch said:
I don't think 5 months being together are enough time. 你 should live together first to know if he's right for 你 and if 你 get along when 你 see each other everyday and have to manage a household together. Cause that's always a whole lot different than visiting each other. My fiancé and I lived in my mother's apartment sharing a small room for one 年 and then moved into our own flat. We faced a lot of difficulties that others only face after years of marriage and we stayed a couple. So we knew it's no mistake to marry cause even those rough times couldn't separate us. 你 never know if the marriage lasts but if 你 have faith in it and there's no doubts for 你 then 你 should marry. But you're asking this 问题 so 你 obviously have doubts. And is that a good start for a marriage? I don't think so.

你 shouldn't buy a dress before 你 know it's the perfect size. It's no guarantee that it will fit 你 for a lifetime. But at least while it fits it makes 你 happy and not feel like 你 made a mistake buying it =)
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posted 一年多以前 
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agreed.
EmzLovesCheryl posted 一年多以前
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My parents got married after 3 months and this 年 they will have 19 years of marriage.
Drisina posted 一年多以前
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I didn't say there was no exceptions ;) I just wouldn't do it.
Schnusch posted 一年多以前
Ale1152 said:
It may not be wise to get married at a young, but I think 18 would be acceptable.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Ok. Thanks!
kakalover posted 一年多以前
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Your Welcome ^^
Ale1152 posted 一年多以前
Insane4ever said:
Those marriegess rarely last.....so good luck
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Thanks.
kakalover posted 一年多以前
bluesweets said:
I think it is, 你 haven't lived your life yet, but whatever, our opinions don't really matter.
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posted 一年多以前 
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你 really thinks so?
kakalover posted 一年多以前
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Yeah and as 说 above, those marriages rarely last. I think it also depends on how long 你 have been going out.
bluesweets posted 一年多以前
rapunzeleah123 said:
That is quite young... but I'm going to pray for your marriage to keep holding on. It's probably been stated before, but young marriages don't really last. (Excepting Edward and Bella's XD)
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thanks!
kakalover posted 一年多以前
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No prob :)
rapunzeleah123 posted 一年多以前
Tamar20 said:
Well my sister got married in the age of 18 and then she got divorced in two months!
Hmm I'm not trying to let 你 down 或者 anything but marriage is a huge responsibility. But if you're in 爱情 and feel like it's the right thing go for it.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Ok.
kakalover posted 一年多以前
nciszivarox said:
I think that if 你 guys are sure 你 爱情 each other and want to be together for the rest of your life 爱情 has no age limit.So I say its yours and your fiancee's opinion that matters 更多 than theirs. Good luck I hope 你 have a great marriage
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posted 一年多以前 
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KK.
kakalover posted 一年多以前
zanesaaomgfan said:
No...

My ex-friend's sister got married at 17 since the wedding was on her birthday....

或者 was that her mom...?

Anyway, I asked my mom a few days 以前 why she thinks Zanessa is too young to think about marriage and she 说 because there might be other people out there that they would fall for.

Your and his 老友记 are probably thinking that... How long have 你 been dating? (Please don't say a week!)
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posted 一年多以前 
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Wow, that's pretty good. I'd say go for it!
zanesaaomgfan posted 一年多以前
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Thanks!!
kakalover posted 一年多以前
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^ But she kinda grew up with him, 你 know?
zanesaaomgfan posted 一年多以前
Chaann94 said:
Sure it's legal.
But 你 better wait 'till 你 both are all grown up. See the brain is done growing when ur about 24/25. THEN you're a grown-up! If 你 get married after that you're less likely to grow apart.
So it's 更多 for your own sake. But of course I don't know 你 and your relationship so...
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Drisina said:
There is no too young/old age to get married.
你 do it when 你 feel ready and 你 found the person 你 want to spent the rest of your life with , but in the same time to be sure she/he wants the same thing.
"Use your head and follow your heart."
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posted 一年多以前 
StarGirl1721 said:
well your young and your not
if 你 think 你 can handle the responsibilities then your OK to go with it but
if 你 think 你 can't well then its up to...but remember its always your disunion to make ;)
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posted 一年多以前 
Niceness said:
Do what your 心 and mind is telling you.
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posted 一年多以前 
shadowcharmer said:
pretty much -_-
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 pretty much -_-
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