I've always wondered this: why so humans think it's right to seek revenge?

We think we don't deserve what someone does to us, and think this ultimately means they need to suffer through the same things we did because we think that we did not do anything and they did something bad for no reason. This makes us mad, and in our madness we can't control our actions as much.

I do think it is natural to want compensation for something done against us. But to delude yourself into thinking it is right and pursuing it is dependent on your own personality. I'm not saying just to turn the other cheek 或者 to resign yourself to a forced indifffernce its just.... sometimes 你 need to think things out clearly. Ask yourself; what is this going to accomplish me in the longrun. I know it may seem hard, 或者 even impossible but forgivness is always an option-albiet a little less favored. I'm not familiar with what 你 are going through but we all feel a need for revenge to perserve, in some form 或者 way, our sense of normalcy, our commonplace. If it is messed with it is hard to ignore especially if loved ones are involved. If your revenge involves violence I ask 你 to please reconsider. hurting peolple is no compensation for anything.
I hope 你 find a 迅速, 斯威夫特 and positive resolution to your conflicts.=]

In my opinion, it's just as humans are and how we feel with our actions *shrugs*
It's like seven sins; been with us humans forever and no one is perfect, and such emotions aren't very shocking seeing that everyone has felt some sort of urge to seek revenge and such.