ok here da story i went out with my best friend last 年 and it didnt end well. He was my first friend here so he means a lot to me. i asked if he still wanted to be frinds. he 说 no. he a big and tragic loss. can 你 give me any advice?
I'm really sorry, the best thing(s) 你 can do is just give some time for him and yourself. Moving on maybe hard but it's not impossible, thinking bout him isn't good either listen to a song 或者 something. He may change his mind, at the moment he felt like that was the right way but things change. 或者 do a rebound boy.. And just turn into a brat who dates everyone!:D That's always one way that works for everything.. Jk maybe.. But either way I wish the best for you!^_^
I saw this quote on someone's 个人资料 page once, and I think it best 《金装律师》 a situation like this.
First, I want to say that the best thing 你 can do is 移动 on. It may be difficult, I know. I've had a massive crush on a boy I've known since the third grade and we were 老友记 also. But then, during the fifth grade he really broke my 心 over a stupid rumor that I had nothing to do with. He never knew I liked him, thank God. But back to you....I know it can be very hard, but sometimes 你 have to walk away and 移动 on.
Now for the quote I found; "Don't fret about the people in your past....there's a reason why they aren't with 你 in the present."
I have one, if he really your friend...he would regret it and apologize to 你 but if he doesn't feel sorry and just ignored you, maybe the fate won't let 你 two be friends... what's impossible could become possible, the only thing I suggest 你 to do is be stiff, if 你 look miserable at him he probably glad 'bout it so convince him that a girl like 你 could be strong then find a new one (I know it's hard) to 移动 on!! I ever felt it once long ago...
i'm sorry that was harsh. My advice, is to find a better friend that would still be 老友记 if this happened again. He doesn't deserve 你 if he is going to not want to be 老友记 anymore. Unless he has a paticular reason for this. 你 should ask him.