The general assumption seems to be that the redhead is just a friend. Gibbs flirts a lot for a man who has a girlfriend/if 你 remember the blond he kissed in S2,ep.12- " Doppelgänger"/, if that is what the redhead is, but he does not seem the type to cheat 或者 be a player.
We never find out who she is as a character she isn't 给 a name. She's just the mysterious redhead in the silver 可兑换, 可转换, 敞篷车 who picks up Gibbs occasionally. lol. I do know in real life that it is Don Bellasarius'(sp?) wife.
No one knows-one of Gibbs misteries.:) But it seems she is 更多 a friend than a potential lover,because in the time Gibbs was with her,he got out with other women.
She was never 给 a name, a face, 或者 a real plot concerning who she is. She was probably a girlfriend 或者 a lover of some sort, but she seemed to disappear after the first season. She was probably written to 显示 off Gibb's mysterious nature, and his 爱情 of red heads. :)
This is as much a 问题 as an answer. I think the red-head is Mark Harmon's wife Pam Dawber w/a red wig to fit the well known preference of Leroy Jethro Gibbs.The character is probably a friend with occasional benefits.:o)