This is very interesting!
Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger?
There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given
由 the Chinese.....
Thumb represents your Parents
秒 (Index) finger represents your Siblings
Middle finger represents your-Self
Fourth (Ring) finger represents your Life Partner
& the Last (Little) finger represents your children
Firstly, open your palms (face to face), bend the middle fingers
and hold them together - back to back
Secondly, open and hold the remaining three fingers and the
Now, try to separate your thumbs (representing the parents),
without any other fingers opening/separating..., they will open,
because your parents are not destined to live with 你 lifelong,
and have to leave 你 sooner 或者 later.
Please 加入 your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers
(representing siblings)...., they will also open, because your brothers
and sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own
separate lives.
Now 加入 the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers
(representing your children)...., they will open too, because the children
also will get married and settle down on their own some day.
Finally, 加入 your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers
(representing your spouse). 你 will be surprised to see that 你 just
CANNOT......, because Husband & Wife have to remain together all
their lives - through thick and thin!!
Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger?
There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given
由 the Chinese.....
Thumb represents your Parents
秒 (Index) finger represents your Siblings
Middle finger represents your-Self
Fourth (Ring) finger represents your Life Partner
& the Last (Little) finger represents your children
Firstly, open your palms (face to face), bend the middle fingers
and hold them together - back to back
Secondly, open and hold the remaining three fingers and the
Now, try to separate your thumbs (representing the parents),
without any other fingers opening/separating..., they will open,
because your parents are not destined to live with 你 lifelong,
and have to leave 你 sooner 或者 later.
Please 加入 your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers
(representing siblings)...., they will also open, because your brothers
and sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own
separate lives.
Now 加入 the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers
(representing your children)...., they will open too, because the children
also will get married and settle down on their own some day.
Finally, 加入 your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers
(representing your spouse). 你 will be surprised to see that 你 just
CANNOT......, because Husband & Wife have to remain together all
their lives - through thick and thin!!
Me, back in the depression days :/
Not the water that travels in a flow
Not the earth that sits below
Not the wind that blows through his hair
Not the 火, 消防 that shines in his stare
None of the four old elements will do
Let's add a fifth, for me and you
One for the smile that sits on our faces
One that makes our hearts take off at paces
That slams our hearts against our ribs
That takes no offence to the jokes and the fibs
Something that reflects even better than 颜色 light
Something that makes 你 feel in flight
A feel that makes 你 thirst for more
A feel like water at beaches shore
A thing that makes 你 do hand-in-hand
A special thing 你 wouldn't trade for all the land
A truth and care 你 see in his eyes
A truth and care clearer than the clearest skies
A 火, 消防 bright to burn forever
A 火, 消防 你 keep going together
One that makes 你 smile and makes your 心 throb
One that's really for us, just us
Let's call it Love...
Not the earth that sits below
Not the wind that blows through his hair
Not the 火, 消防 that shines in his stare
None of the four old elements will do
Let's add a fifth, for me and you
One for the smile that sits on our faces
One that makes our hearts take off at paces
That slams our hearts against our ribs
That takes no offence to the jokes and the fibs
Something that reflects even better than 颜色 light
Something that makes 你 feel in flight
A feel that makes 你 thirst for more
A feel like water at beaches shore
A thing that makes 你 do hand-in-hand
A special thing 你 wouldn't trade for all the land
A truth and care 你 see in his eyes
A truth and care clearer than the clearest skies
A 火, 消防 bright to burn forever
A 火, 消防 你 keep going together
One that makes 你 smile and makes your 心 throb
One that's really for us, just us
Let's call it Love...
Then, all of a sudden I saw a light, a bright light.
As I followed it, I noticed that with each step, all the sadness, sorrow and all of that was vanishing.
Then, I found myself being invaded, invaded 由 joy, happiness and love.
The light became brighter and brighter, and i heard a voice, a sweet gentle voice, asking me to embrace the light, to follow it, so I did.
The light became so intense that I had to close my eyes, but when I opened them I saw it clearly, I saw the 天使 who had just saved me.
Nessie, that 天使 was you!^^
Thanks for all the happiness 你 brought to my life^^ 你 mean a lot to me, I 爱情 you! <33
