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What should I think 或者 do? Am I just getting played 或者 am I overthinking everything??

Okay so there is this guy I've been talking to for 6 months now and I'm just so confused. We have talked ever since I met him, there hasn't been a 日 that we haven't talked. I stupidly had sex with him the first time we hung out and I didn't think that matter until now cause he use to hang with me quite a bit and say sweet things to me but then out of the blue we started hanging out less and less and I was the only one putting effort in. He would tell me that I'm overreacting and that he is just busy so I quit bothering him about it and things started going good until I went on vacation. While I was away he told me how he missed me and couldn't wait to spend time with me and took screenshots of me and told me how I was cute and missed me but then when I got back he didn't even want to see me. He kept making excuses but I didn't let it get to me cause he 说 we would see each other that weekend. So when the weekend rolled around I woke up to a text saying that I'm his best friend and that he found someone new to talk too that he was interested in. I was crushed and I told him how I felt and he just 说 he just wanted to be 老友记 but still hang out and talk cause he didn't want to lose me. So I 说 whatever got over it and still idiotically still talk to him.. Anyways one night I was having a problem to the point I was crying and he was there to help me and he told me to come over to cuddle and talk so I did. I tried keeping my distance but then some how it lead to us having sex and we cuddle and hung out a little after that and then I went home. The 下一个 日 I didn't want to ask him about it cause I knew it meant nothing but I had hope that maybe it did so the 日 went on and I was hoping he would ask me to hang out but towards the end of the 日 my text me a pic of the guy in talking to with another girl. So I finally asked him what that was about he 说 that he didn't mean for us to have sex. So I asked him that fine but why am I around if he has another girl
 j-mac15 posted 一年多以前
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kicksomebut23 said:
Being 老友记 with benefits is not a good idea...NEVER. If 你 爱情 that guy truly, both of 你 should go out with each other.

Of course the guy is using 你 for sex, but the reason why he is doing it because he does not want to hurt you,let 你 go, and stop being with you.

你 should walk away from him because he cannot make up his mind to be with 你 或者 with another girl.

Never decide to be 老友记 with benefits because It seems like this 月 或者 later he is already with another girl and this will cause 你 to become angry.

find true 爱情 with another guy.

Because he will hurt 你 更多 with his poor idea. He cannot find who he truly loves so that is why 你 should allow him to get time
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