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What do I do?

I'm a freshman in high school and I've had a crush on this guy since September and since then we have become friendly with each other but not close friends, 更多 like acquaintances. Anyway, I've found out recently that he kind of knows I like him. We haven't spoken since I became aware of this which was about three weeks 以前 and now I feel really awkward and self conscious around him. Before he knew I asked one of my 老友记 who is one of his close 老友记 to ask him if he liked me. She told me that he 说 no. I don't want to give up on him that easily though because I feel like he just doesn't know me well enough to know whether he likes me 或者 not because I'm shy and not very talkative and I think he's a really good guy and could learn to like me if he got to know me better. So now I'm scared to talk to him but at the same time I want to talk to him 更多 and try to get him to like me. It would mean a lot to me if 你 could give me some good 建议 on what to do in a situation like this. like how to not be so nervous around him and what kind of things to say to him. thanks!
 Musiquelover posted 一年多以前
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xenriquegrl said:
I am exactly like you! I am also a very shy person but I'm gonna share with 你 the tricks and knacks I've learned on how to just get over it.

First of all, 你 know that he knows but the worst thing 你 can do is to just stop talking to him. 你 say 你 wanna talk to him, so, as much as 你 don't want to see this, just talk to him. Not about the fact that 你 like him but just about 随意 stuff. Be yourself, get to know what he likes and see if 你 two have things in common.

The best way 你 can start 由 talking to him is to casually say hi at school and if he's in any of your classes just ask an how are you? And 你 don't have to say anymore than that. That way 你 seem open and friendly. If your too shy to say hi, try to smile. A casual smile. Guys go for girls who seem friendly no matter what 你 look like (although I bet your very beautiful duh). The fact is because your 表演 kinda cold, it sends a wrong vibe to him. 你 shouldn't be ashamed that he knows. It might actually be flattering to him ;)

你 need confidence too. A great way to get started with that is 由 making sure 你 have great 老友记 who support 你 and make 你 laugh and feel good. Hold your chin up, even if he don't like 你 now, doesn't mean he won't in the futur. Ask your 老友记 to accompany 你 to ask him to chill with a group, great way to get to know someone! Your with your 老友记 so 你 feel confident, and it makes things less awkward. Just as long as 你 start 由 being 老友记 and don't get your hopes too too up cuz there are a lot of 鱼 in the sea and your still a freshman so girl, 你 got plenty of time!

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posted 一年多以前 
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Thank 你 so much! 你 made my day. At first I was thinking if he ever asked me about it I would deny everything haha, but u have a good point in saying that he may actually be flattered so I will try what 你 said. Thanks a lot :)
Musiquelover posted 一年多以前
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嘿 your welcome ;) tell me how it went!!!
xenriquegrl posted 一年多以前
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或者 how it goes sorry haha
xenriquegrl posted 一年多以前
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