heyyyy!i badly need advice!!

Are 你 老友记 with him? If not, get to know him and start hanging out with him. Every girl has their own different style of how they go after guys, but if I were in your shoes, I would hang out with him as much as possible and flirt as much as I could. If he likes 你 back he will respond--but 你 have to send really big signals so that he notices!

Good luck!

three years older doesn't matter, the attitude might. I think the best thing to do would just start out like hanging out with your 老友记 where he just happens to be and try to catch his attention, subtly. Maybe then "accidentally" trip into him 或者 over him, but try not to too much 或者 你 may seem desparate. It'll give 你 a chance to maybe talk to him. if that works, 你 could start saying hi when 你 pass him in the hall 或者 something. 你 might start talking more, then 你 can go into light, subtle flirts. if he starts flirting back, start flirting 更多 seriously and something may grow. Just be careful, this isn't professional advise.

That is sooo romantic! I would tell him in the most calm, poetic way 你 could. If it's true love, he'll have this look on his face. I don't know how to explain it but you'll know when 你 see it. If it's not true love, then as hard as it might be, you'll have another three years and college to 移动 on.

Why would it create an issue if 你 talked to him?

alrighty! well, im not against ppl being in 爱情 with older ppl (i like an older guy myself) but i think he will probably go off on his way, forget about u, and u will be heartbroken. if u wanna give the dumping a shot, explain how u feel honestly but dont go into too much detail. if u wanna stay with him, make an arrangement to phone each other (or msn) each other at a certain time and stick to it! i hope i have helped out!!!

My 建议 is- if he's your friend, spend 更多 time with him, let him to get to know the real you. Be yourself around him and if he's meant to be your's, he will! :-D

-xoxo Selena Gomez