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What to do??? Need Advice..Help??

okay umm this is kinda long, but umm yea.. thers this guy who likes me right and im finally told that he likes me, but i didnt feel the same way but 你 know i thought he was ovver me but he dated my best friend and finally i kinda feel the same way,(like 你 know when someone likes 你 and 你 dont like them back but 你 know that person likes 你 and 你 start to grow feeling for that person, thats whats happening here) but hes still going out with my best friend but i tell him i like him and he still feels the same way, so after a while my freind fights with him and me just because i hang out with him sometimes, and she gets jealous because she knew he likes me and started telling me stuff and they both get into fights sometimes over me, so she breaks up with him and he asks me out so i say yes and my friend finds out, and give me these guilty threats so i break up with him the 下一个 日 , and i tell him becasue shes giving suidice thoughts and i dont wana hurt myself again* but know i think i wana get back together with him.... shud i????
 PuNkRoCk123 posted 一年多以前
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Jillywinkles said:
Do 你 understand it from your friend's point of view though? You'd 说 你 didn't want him, and she did, and once she had him 你 take him from her. She feels betrayed 由 you, and probably insecure that her boyfriend doesn't really like her.

In all honesty 你 shouldn't have told him how 你 felt when he was with her, it was kind of stealing.

All 你 can do at this point is pick one, your friend 或者 your guy. What I'd do is this: go to your friend first, find a good time to talk with her and appologize, say how 你 feel, and say that 你 want to make up with her. It's a mess but if 你 can make up with your friend, it will be better. If 你 guys are on good terms, maybe with time she can forgive 你 enough to let 你 go out with him.
你 can do that, 或者 你 can pick the guy instead and go with him. It just depends on how much 你 care for either person. Unless she can forgive you, 你 may not be able to have both.

But basically the situation is that 你 both like the same guy, so it's hard for people not to get hurt.
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posted 一年多以前 
scogburn said:
It's IMPORTANT that 你 do not ever have suicidal thoughts over a relationship. If 你 are, find someone 你 can trust to talk to about this.

It's sticky when 你 like the same guy as a friend. You're going to have to decide who means 更多 to 你 and how long have 你 and this girl been friends? If a long time, 你 might not want to lose her. Sometimes, your girlfriends will stick 由 你 when guys won't. If she can forgive 你 and put it behind both of you, then 你 can 移动 前锋, 期待 in your friendship, but I don't think 你 two need to like the same guy.
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