-Communication communication communication. 你 need to talk about everything, and i mean everything. -If something is bothering you, 你 cannot expect them to know, because of the distance. So 你 need to be able to talk to them. Tell them 你 are upset. With the distance, 你 cannot behave like 你 would in a local relationship, 你 cannot be upset and expect them to know. Sometimes it is obvious, but even then, it is good habit to be straight forward: “I am a little upset right now. X, Y, and Z happened and I am not happy with it”.
I was supposed to go visit my LDG the 15th of 下一个 month, but her mom suddenly decided it was best if I didn't come. I've been there 5 times in the past year, and just didn't see this coming. My girlfriend and I have been having some problems lately, and her mom has caught her crying 更多 than a few times, which is why she decided this, but the thing is we aren't going to be able to work out our problems if we can't even see eachother. It just sucks so much. :( </3
it's a great idea..that's why I joined ♥ I'm in a LDR because I decides to go abroad for one 年 as an au pair and my bf stayed in Germany. It's pretty hard because I miss him and think of him every single minute. but only 3 weeks left until we see eachother again! ♥ we won't have that much time then but I can touch and smell him and that's the most important thing! I so can't wait! :D