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I need some 建议 about hair? Kinda want to look like a boy?

So recently I found the term Genderfluid at my schools GSA club meeting. Even when I was a kid I would want to look like a boy but not really all the time, just kind of fifty fifty. Over time my mom was sure to stamp that all out and kept me as girly as she could even though all my 老友记 were guys. Well now that I know that term I feel a kind of correlation with it and while I'm not sure if I am gender fluid 或者 just kind of an energetic tom boy I've been wanting to cut my hair short for a while now. SO I guess this is kind of a two part question.
Do 你 think I might be gender fluid 或者 just want to look and feel like a boy sometimes?
If/When I cut my hair what kind of hair cut would be able to make me look like a girl on some days and a boy on others?
thank 你 so much in advance!
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Also since I am biologically a girl I am considered straight. I have no attraction to women what so ever if that means anything....... so confused.
fly210 posted 一年多以前
 fly210 posted 一年多以前
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tamore said:
Wanting to look and feel like a boy does probably mean you're gender fluid; I feel that way and I identify as nonbinary! If the label feels good to you, use it and explore it. Cutting your hair will probably help 你 figure yourself out better.

As far as hair, it's really 更多 about what 你 are like on a certain 日 than your hair, trust me. My friend group is almost entirely queer and whether someone looks 更多 femme 或者 butch / boy on a 给 日 has 更多 to do with clothes / how 你 carry yourself / makeup 或者 lack thereof. My hair is dark and kinda like young bieber but less boybandy and I can pass as a girl 或者 a boy depending on everything else. As long as your hair isn't like buzzed you'll be fine, maybe shave the sides shorter but keep some length on 最佳, 返回页首 (like below)? Googling androgynous 模特 might also give 你 some ideas!

Also - your sexual orientation has nothing to do with your gender identity. 你 can like men and not be cis. ^^

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 Wanting to look and feel like a boy does probably mean you're gender fluid; I feel that way and I identify as nonbinary! If the label feels good to you, use it and explore it. Cutting your hair will probably help 你 figure yourself out better. As far as hair, it's really 更多 about what 你 are like on a certain 日 than your hair, trust me. My friend group is almost entirely queer and whether someone looks 更多 femme 或者 butch / boy on a 给 日 has 更多 to do with clothes / how 你 carry yourself / makeup 或者 lack thereof. My hair is dark and kinda like young bieber but less boybandy and I can pass as a girl 或者 a boy depending on everything else. As long as your hair isn't like buzzed you'll be fine, maybe shave the sides shorter but keep some length on 最佳, 返回页首 (like below)? Googling androgynous 模特 might also give 你 some ideas! Also - your sexual orientation has nothing to do with your gender identity. 你 can like men and not be cis. ^^
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Thank you! This really helped!
fly210 posted 一年多以前
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