when should i come out?

dont be scared, your parents are there to support 你 and if they dont like who 你 are then that's really sad. and i understand why your keeping it from your dad, but maybe your mom will understand better. this is not my choice but what (btw im bi 2) i did was just tell my mom and asked her to tell my dad in the best way she could. odds are he will be proud that 你 decided to let him no even though your mom told him. but if u dont want to do this let me no in a letter 或者 墙 post and i will give 你 any 更多 建议 i can think of cuz i really hate it when people are stuck in situations like this! so here is my 个人资料 link and get back to me if 你 can www.fanpop.com/fans/mollymayjr

at 14 i don't think that 你 can actually be sure of your sexuality, i think that every teenager feels confusion about their sexuality at some point, later in life 你 may find yourself only attracted to one gender

at 14 你 shouldn't be in such a rush to label yourself but if 你 feel that 你 are absolutley certain then the only answer i can give to your 问题 is whenever 你 feel comfortable enough to "come out"

你 should come out when the time feels right. Don't try to rush it; just do it if and when you're "feeling it".

I happen to know for a fact that my parents would be supportive because I asked them if they would be okay if I were gay, bi, etc. Try bringing it up casually in a conversation with your dad first and get his reaction. If he is strongly against homo/bisexuality, 你 may not want to come out yet. Parents have kicked their son/daughter out of the house for being gay 或者 bi. 你 may want to take that into consideration first.