How could 你 ever refuse to do a bj 或者 a hj to your straight best friend if he asks 你 to?!

Okay, listen. You're my friend and 你 seem like a nice guy, but it's a little annoying when 你 keep saying "every gay guy should/shouldn't do this" and "how are 你 gay if 你 do/don't do that?" Every gay guy is his own individual and can do whatever he wants. We do not have one mindset. Some gay guys would be happy to do things like that for his straight best friends, but other gay guys wouldn't. Like me. It doesn't mean I'm not gay, I just don't want to do such intimate things with any guy I see. I want to do them with someone I've dated and married and who I believe I'll be with forever. We all have our own things that we like to do and our own personalities. Such as some gay guys like to go a bar and pick up guys, but others like to sit 首页 alone and read a book, and some go out on romantic dates. Wanting to do one thing 或者 the other doesn't make us gay 或者 not, the only thing that makes a guy gay is being attracted to other guys. In any other aspect we could be as different as the Moon is to the Sun.

Erm, because we're friends. That's gross.