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What ideals in society today do 你 believe is anti-feminist, and piss 你 off?

 LadyLilith posted 一年多以前
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LoveforSeverus said:
I agree with Mrs-Grint but I also hate how, here in America, if a guy has sex a lot he's just a "pimp" and it's cool now. But if a girl has sex once and it gets out she's suddenly a huge slut.
And the fact that some men think that they have huge power over us and say our place is in the kitchen. (This guy at school would tell my friend to take her place in the 厨房 all the time because "that's where she belongs")
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AGH!!!! I hate both of those things! I've gotten 更多 relaxed with the topic of sex; I'm starting to see it as 更多 of a need, and it's really no one's business who has sex with who. So long as the women are still PICKING who they choose to do it with, and not just fucking everyone, I don't see them as sluts. I don't think that men should have the right to hump anything that moves and be considered "awesome" for it. I see men as sluts just as I would see a woman as a slut. I don't get why it's not the same thing. It's really fucking retarded. I also hate how if a guy fails at hitting on a girl she's a 'bitch' 或者 a 'freezer.' You're just a fucking loser, dude. Don't put it off on the girl.
LadyLilith posted 一年多以前
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And I would raise hell on that one guy. If I didn't 冲床 him. If I didn't 冲床 him, I'd make it to where he wished that was all I did.
LadyLilith posted 一年多以前
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Grrr......That makes me so annoyed! there was once this song called "Pregnant" with a line going (it was about a women) "put that girl in my kitchen!" i'll post the link, its prety sexist. link
pandawinx posted 一年多以前
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Mrs-Grint said:
Well, first off, obviously that women are paid less than men, that women are protrayed 更多 as the housewife, etc. And in Afghanistan women aren't allowed to walk down the streets without their husband 或者 a male relative. Even in South Africa 1 out of 3 girls are expected to finish school, whilst 1 in 2 are expected to be raped at least once in their lives. When I see something like that on TV, on the radio, 或者 even out in the town. It just... really .. pisses me off, y'know?
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Yeah, I do know. It makes me angry that people just let it happen!
-HuddyLove- posted 一年多以前
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i did not know a lot of those figures - wow that is really shocking and very upsetting - long live freedom
mooimafish17 posted 一年多以前
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I know!! did 你 know that women in some countries have to walk 10 paces behind there husbands at all times???? O.O WTF to them!
pandawinx posted 一年多以前
Dragonclaws said:
Society's obsession with marriage as the most important thing for women. We've got 电影院 like 27 Dresses and Bride Wars that take this idea as a given. As an extension, there's ideas about how women should be in relationships. This kind of stuff ticks me off a lot lately.

(Trying to answer the 问题 as I believe it was meant)
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你 did a good job at answering. Kudos! Yeah, that's only SLIGHTLY obnoxious. It really does seem like nowadays, the most amazing and accomplishing thing a woman can do is get married. Not, 你 know, go to college and get started on a successful career 或者 anything...
LadyLilith posted 一年多以前
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i agree, there is much too emphasis on women getting married. its like, that's not ALL i want to do, 你 know!
sexxiemogirl posted 一年多以前
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The huge emphasis on marriage bugs me too, since 2 out of 3 marriages end in divorce anyway.
MyronPwnsBella posted 一年多以前
pandawinx said:
The 音乐 视频 we have now-a-days. The female dancers are often dressed provocativilly, okay, *lutty as if women are just sex objects! i find that so annoying: like if we dont dress like that we're not worth it. I also HATE playboy/girl, NO-ONE should feel like objects, whather male 或者 female!

Oh yeah, i also think the twilight sagas annoyingly sexist. Bella (the main role) always gets safed from danger from her boyfriend, she cant 安全 herself! its sssooo annoying, like women cant 安全 themselfs!
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I agree about Twilight. That's so true. Have 你 been to the CAT spot- we talk about it a lot there.?
MissKnowItAll posted 一年多以前
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I was just at the store looking for pajamas and they had a bunch of 花花公子 themed pajamas for girls!! It was really depressing.
SelinaKyle posted 一年多以前
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I agree with everything 你 说
GeekGirl posted 一年多以前
sexxiemogirl said:
lots of stuff like unequal pay, double standards in politics/business/lookism, etc.
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The 列表 goes on and on, I know. :/
LadyLilith posted 一年多以前
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yeah, i did a presentation on sexism for my english class, so i unearthed a lot of crazy stuff from research!
sexxiemogirl posted 一年多以前
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Such a long list........and thats only half of it.
pandawinx posted 一年多以前
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i know. it makes me so angry!!!!
sexxiemogirl posted 一年多以前
LoopyLuna96 said:
In my town, the women are paid less than men for the same job. It's been brought up 由 someone, and there's a huge case about it. The council won't pay up, and it's all been going on for years now.
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I really hope that that draws to a close soon! I don't see how businesses can pay women less than men, it's ridiculous!
LadyLilith posted 一年多以前
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Your council is obviously either unaware of this, 或者 just plain sexist!
pandawinx posted 一年多以前
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Just plain sexist. They keep appealing.
LoopyLuna96 posted 一年多以前
SouthParkSmart said:
What I think is misogynistic is how men (or even some women) will insist that that if 女同性恋 have sex, it is not really sex because no penis is involved.

Also, the whole psychological idea of penis envy, and how it is still believed today. And how if a girl doesn't have a dad, society thinks that is really unhealthy. It doesn't matter if she doesn't have a mom 或者 if a boy doesn't have a mother.
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frankie_fan said:
I agree with all the above 答案 but I really hate that the media thinks that women should be married 或者 have childern. I'm not against these things but not ALL women HAVE to be married 或者 have childern. It's their choice. On facebook, I was looking through the likes and one 说 "four Things Every Girl Wants In Life 1- Find a boyfriend, 2- Find true love, 3- Get Married, 4- Start a Family". Not to mention there was many likes on that one. That really pissed me off.
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Agreed, this obsession over children is really pissing me off. It's like a woman is at first defined as a mother. I know that some women who don't have children are really despised, even 由 other women (who are mothers). Let the women have the choice to have a child 或者 not.
xleeloo posted 一年多以前
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uhuh, i personally would like to start a family, but i'll let it come to me in time, i don't want to rush into it when i just 16 或者 have 10 kids and wanting more. Also i find it sexist how if 你 decide not to have children, socitety seems to hate you. 你 haven't 给 birth? society hates you. 你 had a abortion? society hates you.
pandawinx posted 一年多以前
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I would like to have children at some point, but I don't want any pressure from the society.
xleeloo posted 一年多以前
xleeloo said:
I know it's not such a big deal for some people, but I don't like the fact that a woman who is getting married HAS inevitably to choose her husband's name. I always felt like the woman's identity was confused with her husband's. I know the law in some countries lets the choice to the women, but in France for example, if a woman wants to give her child her name, she can only if the husband is okay with it. The child has 由 default his father's name.

And also, the usage of "Miss" which is useless and old school. Well, and the equivalent for men? None.
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It is a big deal, xleeloo! i totally agree, which is why i have a combo fo both my parents names. :)
pandawinx posted 一年多以前
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I would like to have my mother's name, though I don't know if I can change my name. :(
xleeloo posted 一年多以前
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I completely agree with you. The name is , at least symboallicay if not othewise, a part of one's identiy and that it is expected the woman is the one who should just give it up and embrace her husband's is annoying,
Slayerette89 posted 一年多以前
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Oh and I forgot to 评论 on the other part with which I completely agree with as well. Your example with titles is anouther illustration that being married is still condidered important for women. Hopefully some 日 the Miss and Mrs forms will be replaced 由 Ms. I know many people think it's just a nuisance to insist on such changes in language, but since language does reflect certain social attitudes, I think it does not harm ridding it of sexism.
Slayerette89 posted 一年多以前
MyronPwnsBella said:
First of all, I don't like how most of the people against women's reproductive rights are men, yet they themselves will never ever be pregnant. They're never going to know what it's like for women, so how could they possibly know from experience, what's best for them. And I'm not really talking about doctors at all, I'm talking about men outside of the medical field.

秒 of all, Bella Swan. She is, IMO, the WORST female character ever! She's always dependent on Edward 或者 Jacob for everything, she whines like a little baby when she can't be with Eddie, AND the scary thing is that girls actually look up to her. Seriously, I think because of her, instead of girls wanting to be strong, independent (this doesn't necessarily mean single) women who respect themselves and can stand on their own two feet, girls are going to be airheaded, dependent women who play fairytale princess and depend on men to solve all their problems 或者 rescue them.
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 First of all, I don't like how most of the people against women's reproductive rights are men, yet they themselves will never ever be pregnant. They're never going to know what it's like for women, so how could they possibly know from experience, what's best for them. And I'm not really talking about doctors at all, I'm talking about men outside of the medical field. 秒 of all, Bella Swan. She is, IMO, the WORST female character ever! She's always dependent on Edward 或者 Jacob for everything, she whines like a little baby when she can't be with Eddie, AND the scary thing is that girls actually look up to her. Seriously, I think because of her, instead of girls wanting to be strong, independent (this doesn't necessarily mean single) women who respect themselves and can stand on their own two feet, girls are going to be airheaded, dependent women who play fairytale princess and depend on men to solve all their problems 或者 rescue them.
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