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How do 你 give 支持 to people with closed wall?

I wanna give some 支持 to people that I like, but they don't like me back. Story of my life. Anyway, how do I do that? I had to post a note to their club 墙 instead, but that's not the same! How do I bypass this closed 墙 obstacle? Is there any way around it? How to tell someone on this site that 你 like them a lot, when they don't even wanna read your mail?!? So, how do I make them like me and let me give them some props? Why some people close their walls to 支持 in the first place?! How come people don't read their own mail?! How do I tell zanhar1 that I like her a lot? Can somebody help me with that? Anyone? Thanks.
 How do 你 give 支持 to people with closed wall?
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It's not just zanhar1. Many people on this site have closed walls, people that I like, but they don't like me. There is plenty of other people who never fanned me back. How do I tell all those people on this site that I like them a lot??? How do I tell makintosh and some other users to 粉丝 me back??
XYZ01ABC10 posted ·3个月前
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Ranty-cat posted ·3个月前
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Is there a halfway setting where people could 评论 on walls and give props, but the content wouldn't be visible until authorised 由 that person? If not, that could be a good idea.
Flickerflame posted ·3个月前
 XYZ01ABC10 posted ·3个月前
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zanhar1 said:
你 don't. I have my 墙 closed off to anyone not on my fanlist because in the past I've had people spam my 墙 with 'join my club' stuff 或者 bots spam it with 'go to xyz website for free whatever!' I've also had people use my 墙 to harass me and tell me to kill myself among other things so I closed it off back in 2012ish.
Downside is I can't receive 随意 nice messages. But honestly, closing my 墙 off saved me from a few nasty people so I just keep it that way.
I feel like this is why most people privatize their profiles.

The best way to give a person like that 支持 would be to message them like 你 did...and hope that they check their 收件箱 unlike some people *CoughMeCough*.

I saw your message at work, 说 that I would respond after work, and forgot lol. The reasons I personally don't check my 收件箱 is because I'm really busy IRL due to my new job and (unlike when I was in high school) I have 更多 老友记 and a better social life. So I get pretty busy. 潮流粉丝俱乐部 is kind of dying so I don't check it quite as often.

It isn't that I (and others) don't like you. It's that we don't know you. I like to talk to people a few times before adding them as I've had a few users turn out to be real jerks. And one dude who kept saying really creepy stuff, like he'd post on the one picture of myself that I uploaded with really creepy sounding 'you're pretty's'.
But 你 seem like a nice person, so I'll add 你 so 你 can post on my 墙 and stuff.
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