I’ve received a lot of messages about troubles with love, the gender one identifies as…
Things such as, “I hate myself as a girl” and “is it wrong to fall in 爱情 with someone of the same gender” …
I have a feeling that I’ve talked about this before, but first of all, I want to say that I don’t have that sort of prejudice at all. I guess 你 could say that I feel the same way 你 do. There’s nothing wrong with falling in 爱情 with someone.
It’s sad that there are people who look upon this issue with a prejudiced view 或者 a hateful view, just as there’s also a lot of people who judge others based on their appearance, but I think that there’s nothing that can be done about it.
They say “I understand” with their mouths, but they don’t really mean it. So, 你 end up feeling isolated 由 different things around you.
Then, there’s the people who want to become men, but their parents don’t understand and refuse to accept it.
“You were born as a woman.” is a really irrational thing to say, isn’t it.
It’s depressing that they don’t understand your nature, your 心 and body…
It’s not your fault.
There’s no reason to blame yourself. It’s no one else’s fault, either.
Despite that, I think that it’s especially difficult to have this sort of conflict with your parents…
I believe that someday, they’ll surely accept 你 for who 你 are, so don’t change.
你 should pay no attention to those around 你 and take pride in who 你 are. But if 你 let yourself be affected 由 what they say, then that pain is already waiting within the depths of your heart. Still, there’s no need whatsoever to be humble.
Even if 你 get all of those feelings out of 你 that are so painful it’s hard to breathe, it won’t go well.
The pain of rejection, the fact that 你 can’t come to 爱情 yourself for who 你 are, and the feeling of hurting yourself… I understand completely.
Nevertheless, there’s no need for 你 to hurt yourself.
Because we’re all human, we have good points and bad points, so it’s only natural, but 你 can’t change for anyone because 你 only have this one existence.
Today, there was an incident at an unexpected place where I felt the kindness of people.
Although I have nothing but a cold image of strangers, feeling that kindness at an unexpected time warmed my heart.
It’ll be okay… we can get through this together.
Things such as, “I hate myself as a girl” and “is it wrong to fall in 爱情 with someone of the same gender” …
I have a feeling that I’ve talked about this before, but first of all, I want to say that I don’t have that sort of prejudice at all. I guess 你 could say that I feel the same way 你 do. There’s nothing wrong with falling in 爱情 with someone.
It’s sad that there are people who look upon this issue with a prejudiced view 或者 a hateful view, just as there’s also a lot of people who judge others based on their appearance, but I think that there’s nothing that can be done about it.
They say “I understand” with their mouths, but they don’t really mean it. So, 你 end up feeling isolated 由 different things around you.
Then, there’s the people who want to become men, but their parents don’t understand and refuse to accept it.
“You were born as a woman.” is a really irrational thing to say, isn’t it.
It’s depressing that they don’t understand your nature, your 心 and body…
It’s not your fault.
There’s no reason to blame yourself. It’s no one else’s fault, either.
Despite that, I think that it’s especially difficult to have this sort of conflict with your parents…
I believe that someday, they’ll surely accept 你 for who 你 are, so don’t change.
你 should pay no attention to those around 你 and take pride in who 你 are. But if 你 let yourself be affected 由 what they say, then that pain is already waiting within the depths of your heart. Still, there’s no need whatsoever to be humble.
Even if 你 get all of those feelings out of 你 that are so painful it’s hard to breathe, it won’t go well.
The pain of rejection, the fact that 你 can’t come to 爱情 yourself for who 你 are, and the feeling of hurting yourself… I understand completely.
Nevertheless, there’s no need for 你 to hurt yourself.
Because we’re all human, we have good points and bad points, so it’s only natural, but 你 can’t change for anyone because 你 only have this one existence.
Today, there was an incident at an unexpected place where I felt the kindness of people.
Although I have nothing but a cold image of strangers, feeling that kindness at an unexpected time warmed my heart.
It’ll be okay… we can get through this together.