First things first calm down, and don't hate me for just being honest with my opinion.

I'm sorry guys to break it to 你 p, but we are the 粉丝 service not SE, and here's why SE whether we like 或者 not had a real reaplationship heavy on "real" but they did non the less this relationship went on for 3 YEARS, a relationship no matter how twisted, stuiped, cheesey, unrealistic it looked and felt like, is still was the main lasting "love" story (unlike caroline with Matt & Tyler 或者 Jeremy with Anna p & Bonnie) their relationship stayed strong no matter how much we didn't want it to be.

As...

"Stelena are the 心 and soul of the show."
"Elena will always 爱情 Stefan and put him first."
"Elena will always choose Stefan, she 说 so herself."
"The 三角形, 三角 isn't real, it's just a gimmick to sell the show."
"The producers have pretty much 说 that Damon will never be good enough for Elena."
"The writers have made it clear 由 now that Elena will never 爱情 Damon."
"And that is why..."
"And that is why..."
"And that is why..."
"Delena will never be together."
"Delena will never be a reality."
"You're wrong to ship DE."
"Stelena are the one true 爱情 story of the show."

However passionate we are...

Maybe it was silly of me, but I expected a lot 更多 from Stelena in Season 3. I thought their relationship would finally graduate from the syrupy sweet high school romance which lacked dimension into something much darker. I honestly thought that with Stefan's ripper storyline, we would really see Stelena develop and change. However, I was VERY disappointed with the results we got.
Even after the most testing time of their relationship, Stelena has barely evolved at all. They went through a brief dark spell, yes, which culminated in Stefan holding Elena and the ones she loved to ransom in his...