I notice a lot of DE 粉丝 don't like Stefan, & I get why. I'm not pushing all to have the same opinion. I, for one, like Stefan. I know he can be a very hypocritical character, plus dull as dirt sometimes (especially when he has scenes with Elena), but I do like his SLs as a character built. I'm iffy sometimes about Damon being overly harsh/antagonistic, the same with Elena, who is my 最喜爱的 TVD character. I like Stefan due to Steroline friendship, Stefan/Lexi friendship, Stefonnie friendship, Klaus/Stefan scenes, Defan bond, Steferine chemistry/potential, Stebekah chemistry, maybe Stelena friendship, scenes with other characters, his Ripper storyline, his slight redemption & own sense of humor & compassion for others. I just DON'T & never will like him in a romantic relationship with Elena. I respect their 爱情 for one another as a past couple, but I don't see any going back.
It seems that there's so much hate on here about Stefan. Shouldn't we just be worried about pro-Delena instead of, *Oh, Stefan's a real hyporcrite!* Oh, no! We are worrying because of Stelena scenes coming up!* No offense to anyone else (I'm not trying to generalize), but it doesn't matter to me really anymore. Yea, I worry if Stelena are being propped, but that's just part of the triangle's journey, no matter how irritating it is. I don't see Stelena as a threat, nor am I trying to say that anyone on here is (though the hate of Stefan has been increasing IMO). Just focus on Delena as all I'm saying. I thought/believe there's still a rant/vent thread on here anyway. Stelena crud can go there forever, IMO. For I am truly convinced TVD journey isn't about Stelena. If so, the writers went about it in such a lazy, instant, 不可思议的 way.
Stelena were put together instantly while Delena had the build up & layers of love, hate, friendship, compassion, passion, misunderstandings, selfish/selflessness, arguments, apologies, burning, absolutely complete love. That is how I see it & always will. TEAM DELENA. =D